Book Review: The Upper Crush by Evie Alexander

The Upper Crush by Evie Alexander

A Romance Novel published by Emlin Press (04/17/24)

Summary:

“Because we’re leaping into the unknown and hoping the other person will be there to catch us.” (Kindle edition, 94%).

Lady Estelle and James must work together to make the Foxbrooke festival a success for both their sakes. Estelle knows James to be a bully while James secretly likes Estelle but doesn’t think she’ll be able to see past his reputation. Can Estelle keep herself in check or will her personality and feelings get in the way of the festival planning? Can James redeem himself in her eyes so that she sees him as anything other than a bully?

Keywords:

Romance, Contemporary, Standalone, HEA, Enemies to Lovers, Small Town, Lady, Estate, Rich, Forced Proximity

My Review:

I love a good slow-burn enemies-to-lovers romance with dueling POV. The book includes some other good romance tropes like forced proximity, small town, bully turned nice guy, and a bit of love at first sight.

I loved the main characters. I loved the side characters. I even loved the animals/pets. Both Estelle and James are the main characters you can’t believe are single but also can very much understand why they are single. They are both stubborn, strong, and big personality types. Both characters have a different but similar purpose intertwined with their forced proximity situation. They each also had their own backstory that made them very compelling. I really liked how both main characters were completely independent people and didn’t need the other to complete themselves, which made their love even more captivating. They have their flaws but are also the most caring and heartfelt people. Estelle will not hesitate to stand up and protect a woman she thinks is being abused. James will go out of his way for others without a second thought.

The romantic element makes this book so good, especially the slow buildup of the enemies-to-lovers romance that makes the eventual romance so very satisfying. The sexual attraction is always there, even from the beginning. There are a lot of falling-in-love montage moments and overcoming inevitable obstacles before getting to the first of the steamy parts.

The plot holds together the romance well and the dialogue is witty and super fun to read. The climax felt real and well-integrated into the story’s plot and the ending was satisfying with its HEA.

I received an ARC and this is my honest review.

This novel was published by Emlin Press on 04/17/2024 and is available on Amazon here.

TL;DR Star Rating: 5.0

Links for more information

Goodreads

Houston Space Center NASA VIP Tour

Space Center Houston in the morning before the general public opening

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: Crew Systems Laboratory

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: Crew Systems Laboratory

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: Shuttle Avionics Integration Laboratory

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: Shuttle Avionics Integration Laboratory

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: Apollo Mission Control Center

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: Apollo Mission Control Center

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: ISS Mission Control

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: ISS Mission Control

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: NBL

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: NBL

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: NBL

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Astronaut Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Astronaut Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Astronaut Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Jake Garn Simulation and Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Jake Garn Simulation and Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Jake Garn Simulation and Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Jake Garn Simulation and Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Jake Garn Simulation and Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Jake Garn Simulation and Training Facility

 

Would I recommend the Astronaut Training Tour? Yes.

Would I recommend the Mission Control Tour? Yes.

If you can only do one, which would I choose? Mission Control Center, but the Astronaut Training is a close second!

Was it worth the price? $200/each person for each tour but still yes!

What was my favorite part? live ISS feed from the Mission Control Center, holding the $2 million astronaut glove, and the Neutral Buoyancy Lab pool.

What would I change? – add on for astronaut breakfast prior to the tour as the time conflicts with the start of the first tour.

SXSW Austin 2024 Volunteer Experience

A badge costs how much!!?? I had no idea that a person would spend that much money on one ticket. And what exactly is SXSW (and is it acceptable to write it out as South by Southwest)?

In my own words: SXSW is a combo conference and festival that is a two-week long party with music, comedy, film premiers, several big exhibits, speakers, interactive media, panels, networking get-togethers, and straight-up parties with free alcohol and food.

Door/walk up price for the top-tier badge (platinum) was $2095 but if you get your badge for next year it is on sale now for $1365 (limited presale). There are several tiers of badges/tickets. It’s all a bit chaotic and there’s so much going on. As a volunteer, I was granted a film/tv, music, or interactive badge for my 44 hours of volunteering during the festival (minimum requirements are 40 for this second tier badge or 56 for the platinum badge and an additional 6 for an EDU badge add-on). It gets confusing fast when you’re new. There is also the option to just get an EDU badge with 24 hours of volunteering if you can’t commit to the 40+ but you won’t get as much access with an EDU badge.

I love volunteering and volunteering for SXSW 2023 was no exception. This year I chose the Exhibitions Crew (you choose a crew and stick with that crew for the duration of your volunteer hours). I was wavering between Catering, Exhibitions, and Sessions but due to my own time constraints, I went with the Exhibitions Crew. Sign up early to get the crew and the shifts that you want! I went to the volunteer call on the second day and there were already shifts that were unavailable by then (1/22).

Pros to volunteering with Exhibitions: you can front stack your volunteer hours since they operate during the first weekend before EDU starts. The hours were not earlier than 7:30AM and not later than 9PM. If you want a calmer experience you can opt for “load in” days and handle the setup for the festival instead of interacting with the SXSW people. Exhibition shifts were all indoors in the mostly climate-controlled convention center or Fairmont hotel next door. Our crew leaders and managers were awesome to work with and the other volunteers were enthusiastic and interesting people to be around. It was all-around a calm environment where I got to hear so many fun SXSW stories from past years and get the scoop on how to make the most of my time. I loved getting an hour for breaks so I could get a feel for downtown during the festival and have enough time to eat and socialize.

Cons to volunteering: public transit is not ideal for volunteer hours and shift start/end times. The metro train runs every 40 minutes and the local bus transfer I had to take was not consistent or reliable. You are not supposed to use your badge perks on the same days that you volunteer. With the amount of hours required to get your badge, it’s difficult to find the time to use your badge and your perks, especially if you don’t live downtown or won’t commit to hanging out downtown on your off-volunteer days (ie have day job).

From the many people I talked to while volunteering, in lines waiting to get into venues, and walking around the festival, I got the sense that it was a busy year. Many people expressed disappointment that they couldn’t get into movies, parties, lounges, events, sessions/panels, etc. Rooms reached capacity as soon as they let people in and to me, it seemed like the downtown area was full of street chaos. If I had paid for my badge, I would have been disappointed at how difficult it was to get into events, especially hot events like the Civil War premier, The Fall Guy premier, any party/event with free alcohol and/or food, and speakers like Meghan Markle, Kirsten Dunst, Selena Gomez, Elijah Wood, Seth Green, Dylan Mulvaney, Jay Shetty, Justice, The Black Keys, Mike Judge, Judd Apatow, Ashley Judd, Brooke Shields, Jane Fonda and Janelle Monae. With possible red carpet appearances by Anne Hathaway, Emily Blunt, Riley Keogh, Ryan Gosling, Dev Patel, Nicolas Cage, Willem Dafoe, Peter Sarsgaard, Jake Gyllenhaal, Marisa Tomei, Jon Bon Jovi, Ed Harris, Morgan Freeman, Mark Wahlberg, LeBron James and Travis Kelce.

I spent over an hour in line with my ‘free’ yet still standby line ticket for the Industry party but had to bail because my local bus wasn’t running past a certain hour even though the metro train had expanded hours. I made several buddies in that line and watched as one dared another to sneak in the back door. I later saw one of those line buddies as I was monitoring the door to the Creative Industries Expo (CIE) later that week and said hi.

Some people experience SXSW luck – not just when preparation meets opportunity but when you are around the right place and make friends with the right people. Someone happened to bump into Anne Hathaway in the bathroom while we were waiting for the premiere of The Idea of You to start. I saw one of my neighbors while volunteering. One of the volunteers got a wristband to get into Trevor Noah’s live podcast event by walking up to the right person at the right time. By keeping my eyes and ears peeled I was able to score free C4, free Prime, free Red Bull, free Siete chips, and a free Voodoo Doughnut. I was a little late to RSVP to events that required advance tickets but if I’d been more on the ball I could have gotten access to even more free nibbles and drinks. As it was, even with my $1300 badge, I was stuck in standby-esque lines anytime I wanted to try going to an event with something free in it.

A short list of what I was able to experience at SXSW 2024:

  • Creative Industries Expo including Battle Bots
  • Registrant Lounge with free samples and 5* bathrooms
  • Equality Lounge with free drinks (not high in alcohol content but delicious) and appetizers
  • Funk Factory event by Pourri with lots of easy-to-grab Poo-Pourri travel-sized packs
  • Health & Medtech Happy Hour with an ‘open bar’ and appetizers (after waiting in line for 40 minutes)
  • A tour of the XR expo and EDU expo before they opened to the public during load in
  • Film premiere of The Idea of You (in the last 10 rows of the theatre after waiting in line for 2 hours)

I would volunteer again but would probably choose a Film and TV badge. I would RSVP and get tickets well in advance of the festival so I could go to some of the networking/parties and actually get into those events. I would try to make time to come to SXSW as a participant on a weekday and not just on the weekend. I would try to catch at least one music performance. I would try out the shuttle and check out other venues. I would carpool with other volunteers, if possible, to cut down transit time from 90 minutes to the 18-25 it takes to get from my house to downtown.

I would never pay for a badge – the value just isn’t there unless you are press or have good connections. A badge doesn’t grant you front-of-line status, it’s just another way to access SXSW events. Even Platinum badge holders have to wait in lines and won’t always get into events, sessions, and films. Just like going to Disney, going to SXSW is outside the reality of normal value per use. You won’t always get what you want but if you are strategic about what you are willing to spend time in line for, you can get into some buzzy events and be the cool kid. Then again, in a venue of 1300 people, if they all laugh at a joke the sound is deafening enough to drown out the next line of dialogue in a movie so I think I’ll have to watch that movie again when it comes out in May.

Birthday Freebies – Austin 2024

Using this handy dandy local person’s spreadsheet, I picked out the rewards I wanted and the places I would go this year for my birthday freebies!

Day-of Starbucks drink: Treinta Pistachio Cold Brew with Chocolate Cream Foam and Extra Pistachio Cream Foam, no ice, 2 vanilla syrup and 2 pistachio sauce

Dutch Bros the week after my birthday: iced cold brew with protein milk in their largest size

Free soda drink and free large popcorn at AMC the month of my birthday

Any pastry from Panera: I chose their croissant because I wanted to make it into an avocado and tomato sandwich at home

Jeni’s scoop of ice cream: I chose chocolate in a waffle bowl

Sprinkles: I tried out their gluten-friendly red velvet cupcake

Culinary Dropout – one dessert: I chose their Mississippi Mud Pie

Ulta Beauty – one sample size of their Good Genes

Not pictured – Alamo Drafthouse free treat: 3-Cookies

Book Review: Ruthless Ends (The Marionettes Book 4) by Katie Wismer

Ruthless Ends (The Marionettes Book 4) by Katie Wismer

A Dark Urban Fantasy Novel published by Ahimsa Press (10/22/23)

Summary:

“The bond is pulled taut, like we’re each gripping one end and holding on for dear life.” (Kindle edition, 6%).

Valerie’s blood magic is changing. Her life is still in chaos. She must decide if she’s going to be the one to fight and if that will cost her too much or if the sacrifices will be worth it in the end.

Keywords:

Urban Fantasy, Vampires, Witches, Paranormal, Romance, Sacrifice, Blood, Attack, Mystery, Friendship, Family, Love, Gothic Fiction, New Adult

My Review:

This fourth book of the series starts where book three left off and if you aren’t reading them one after the other it may take you some time to get re-aclimated into the turmoil and chaos that is Valerie’s life. Even though I didn’t remember all the characters and their stories thus far, I was propelled along by the action and the plot. It felt like this book was building up to a grand ending and I wasn’t getting stuck in the details along the way.

I absolutely am enthralled with the world-building in this series. I don’t typically read this genre but Katie Wismer has sucked me into the world of the Darkmoors, vampires, and all the creatures in between. My favorite part was the newly introduced storyline of darker magic and the shadow world. If you are a fan of the movie Us then you will be as fascinated by the shadow world as I am.

There was one steamy/spicy scene that I felt was out of place to read but guess it made sense as it related to Valerie and her declining mental state. This book felt like less romance and more thriller/horror and the steamy romance didn’t feel like it belonged as well as it did in the first book.

This novel was published by Ahimsa Press 10/22/23 and is available on Amazon here.

TL;DR Star Rating: 4.00

Links for more information:

Katie Wismer’s Website

Goodreads

Book Review: An Unholy Affair by Evie Alexander

An Unholy Affair by Evie Alexander

A Romance Novel published by Emlin Press (09/14/23)

Summary:

Small-town vicar Eveline puts everyone else first. Her dream is to find the perfect partner, but that doesn’t seem to be in God’s plan… Until she meets Jack. Could he be the one? Jack keeps his profession a secret from his friends and family, his life in France separate from the life he grew up living in the small town of Foxbrooke. It was love at first sight when he saw Eveline but she’s doing God’s work and he’s an escort. Would he be good enough for her?

Keywords:

Forbidden Love, Gender Swapped Priest, Escort, Grumpy V. Sunshine, Love at First Sight, Small Town Romance, Contemporary Romance, Standalone, HEA

My Review:

I am so incredibly mad at the townsfolk of Foxbrooke! They take advantage of Eveline’s goodwill. They invade her privacy and her space without thinking about her. She always listens to their woes and solves their problems when her hot water hardly works and her front door barely opens. She lives for her town but they don’t seem to see her as a person with her own feelings and needs. Eveline has real external problems that Jack is poised to fix with his protective mentality. But Jack is also saddled with real internal problems that someone as caring as Evelenine is perfect to fix. I was very invested in Eveline and Jack realizing they were perfect for each other and couldn’t wait for their HEA and personal growth as characters.

Foxbrooke comes alive as a small town. Several different types of people come to Eveline for advice, help, or just a snack and a chat. My favorite side character was the lively and full-of-personality Estelle. She seems like such a character and almost like the opposite of Eveline!

I like how the roles are reversed in this book – where Jack is the escort and Eveline is the vicar. However, neither of them has had a perfect past. They are both flawed. The main characters are what make this book stand out. They are the most compelling. Their story is the page-turner. Their inevitable love and happily ever after is the book high I crave when I read a romance.

I received an ARC and this is my honest review.

This novel was published by Emlin Press on 09/14/2023 and is available on Amazon here.

TL;DR Star Rating: 5.0

Links for more information

Book Review: Love ad Lib by Evie Alexander

Love ad Lib by Evie Alexander

A Romance Novel published by Emlin Press (06/13/23)

Summary:

“The vicar’s pigs are gonna fly before you take any risks with your life.” (Kindle edition, 10%)

Henry Foxbrooke wants order, control, and to have a curated life in the financial sector of London’s finest. His family wants him to step into the role as heir to the Foxbrooke estate, settle down, and produce heirs. Libby Fletcher is the brightest most positive personality in the room but she’s also a people pleaser who’s afraid to let go. Libby agreeing to be Henry’s fake girlfriend will solve all their problems, at least temporarily until they inevitably fall for each other. 

Keywords:

romance; romantic; contemporary romance; romcom; romantic comedy; comedy; standalone; love story; HEA; happy ending; happily ever after; funny; sweet; sexy; steamy; heat; funny; hilarious; laugh-out-loud; feel good; humorous; humor; fake romance; small town, steamy, romance, romance series, one bed, fake dating, fake relationship, standalone, grumpy sunshine, opposites attract, fish out of water, celebrity, comedy, stately home, Duke, Duchess, royalty, humor, HEA, love story, love, United Kingdom, Somerset, Bath, Jane Austen, Austen, rural

My Review:

I received an ARC and this is my honest review.

This novel was published by Emlin Press on 06/13/2023 and is available on Amazon here.

TL;DR Star Rating: 5.0

Links for more information

2023 in Financial Fitness, Net worth, and Budgeting

Finances Goals 2023:

  • Keep $10,000 in my emergency fund
    • I was able to keep my emergency cash above $10,000 all year.
  • $250,000 in assets
    • According to my potential real estate sale value and all my retirement accounts and cash combined, I have met this goal!

Financial Accomplishments of 2023:

  • I applied for a total of 622 usability studies and completed 43
  • I earned nearly $3,000 from studies last year paid out in gift cards, credits, checks, and cash
  • I was able to use $293 reimbursed mystery shopping dining out this year (and got to try some cool new restaurants in the process)
  • I’ve saved $618 on Too Good To Go since March of 2022 (the app that lets you rescue unsold food at your favorite spots from an untimely fate)
  • I earned $115.50 from browser extensions and $75 from receipt uploading (as gift cards)
  • Capital One Savings account increased their interest to 4.35% APY on all balances, letting my emergency fund earn me over the 2023 3.2% inflation rate
  • I opted for Gift Cards to Amazon for many of my usability study payouts and combined those purchases with slow shipping to earn $68 in digital credits
  • I earned over $500 in credit card rewards by utilizing my higher-earning card categories (I have a note on which cards are best for which spending categories)
  • I fully funded both my Roth IRA and my HSA for the year
  • My credit score increased to 800+

Finances Goals 2024

  • Apply to 365 usability studies
  • Make $2500 in side income including study gift cards and cash
  • Complete 4 mystery shops
  • Spend less than I make
  • Save for Japan trip 2025

2022 Finances update

 

I like to take the month of January (my birth month) to update my net worth and financial information

I use a retirement calculator to see where I am on my retirement needs journey and fill out the following for the year:

Desired Retirement Age

Location

Annual Income before taxes

Social Security Age for Benefits

Yearly savings

Annual Retirement Expenses

IRA value

401k value

Shares ‘value’

Real estate (sale price – loan)

HSA investments

Precious Metals/Physical Assets Value

General Investing

Emergency Fund + cash

Credit Score

I take a look at my assets (and net worth) and how they’ve changed over time:

Asset

2023 % of value

2022 % of value

2021 % of value

2020 % of value

2019 % of value

Stock Shares

18%

13%

10%

11%

16%

Real Estate

40%

49%

41%

0%

0%

Cash

4%

4%

8%

24%

16%

General Stocks

3%

3%

4%

21%

23%

Physical Assets

2%

2%

2%

3%

4%

401k

4%

4%

6%

7%

8%

IRA

23%

20%

25%

31%

32%

HSA

5%

5%

4%

3%

0%

Total

18.5% increase

16% increase

 76% increase

 53% increase

I like to check out where I am according to the government and possible future social security at SSA.gov

I look at how much I adhered to my monthly budgeting over the year and compare it to previous years’ spending:

 2018

 2019

 2020

 2021

 2022

 2023

Health

27%

2%

4%

2%

1%

 1%

Fitness

1%

1%

1%

4%

2%

 2%

Education

 0%

2%

0%

0%

0%

0%

Eating Out

4%

8%

3%

5%

4%

 3%

Gift

 0%

2%

4%

3%

0%

 1%

Groceries

7%

10%

11%

10%

6%

 5%

Household and clothing

3%

1%

4%

2%

10%

 4%

Travel

2%

5%

5%

3%

11%

 13%

Entertainment

2%

1%

1%

1%

2%

 3%

Bills – Transportation

7%

9%

7%

4%

3%

 5%

Bills – Housing+Utilities

9%

17%

17%

14%

16%

 15%

Bills – other (Phone)

3%

1%

4%

3%

3%

 4%

Other – Misc

2%

0%

3%

1%

3%

 2%

Charity

 0%

1%

1%

1%

0%

 0%

IRA contributions

9%

12%

12%

9%

6%

 7%

HSA contributions from paycheck

5%

 0%

 0%

4%

2%

 2%

Taxes paid

19%

28%

25%

22%

18%

 19%

Real Estate Investment

 NA

NA

NA

12%

13%

 18%

Each year I also update my Legacy Binder to make sure the information is correct and accessible:

  • Insurance
    • Personal Insurance (Disability – short term/long term, Life)
    • Renter’s/House Insurance
    • Health Insurance
    • Car Insurance and AAA if applicable
  • Location of Documents/Items
    • Lastpass login, iPhone login
    • Precious metals
    • credit cards/debit cards
    • Medical History
    • Birth Certificate
    • Social Security Card
    • Passport
    • Last Tax Returns
    • Last Will and Testament along with: Durable Power of Attorney for Finances, Durable Power of Attorney for Healthcare, and Funeral Wishes
    • Driver’s License
  • Account Information
    • Personal email and calendar
    • All banks including HSA and investing brokerage accounts
    • Business account and banking if applicable
    • Phone plan and account access
    • TSA Known Traveler
    • P2P digital payment shortcuts
  • Previous Addresses including the following information
    • Dates lived there
    • Landlord and contact information
    • Reason for moving
    • Rental price
  • Emergency Contacts including
    • Relationship
    • Birthday
    • Contact phone number
    • Contact email
    • Contact address

Goals and Accomplishments from 2023 and Future Goals for 2024

2024 Goals

  • 2024 Describe yourself in 3 words: Maximal, Goal-Oriented, Partner
    • 2024 Describe what you want more of in 3 words: Growth, Decluttering, Minimize
    • Theme for 2024: Organization
  • 2023 Describe yourself in 3 words: Impatient, Forgetful, Loving
    • 2023 Describe what you want more of in 3 words: Saving, Friendship, Experiences
    • Theme for 2023: Settling in
    • Goals list of 2023
  • 2022 Describe yourself in 3 words: Self, Partner, New
    • 2022 Describe what you want more of in 3 words: Success, Happy Moments, Learning
    • Theme for 2022: Realize
    • Goals list of 2022
  • 2021 Describe yourself in 3 words: Driven, Busy, Challenged
    • 2021 Describe what you want more of in 3 words: Vacation, Attentive, Patience
    • Theme for 2021: Plan
    • Goals list of 2021
  • 2020 Describe yourself in 3 words: Anxious, Quick, Analytic
    • 2020 Describe what you want more of in 3 words: Patience, Deliberate, Calm
    • Theme for 202: Hygge
    • Goals list of 2020
  • 2019 Describe yourself in 3 words: Driven, Efficient, Restless
    • 2019 Describe what you want more of in 3 words: Calm, Accomplished, Considerate
    • Theme for 2019: Minimize
    • Goals list of 2019
  • Goals list of 2018
  • Goals list of 2017
  • Goals list of 2016
  • Goals list of 2015

 

Instead of the usual “What were my goals” and “Did I accomplish them” bullet list, I will look back at what I’ve done since the beginning of 2023…

One of the funniest things I saw all year goes to Jon and his impromptu acting when he was chosen out of the crowd to be in the Paranormal Cirque show at the pop-up in Barton.

It was a blast spending my birthday in Florida, spending a night in my house, getting to see my sister perform in the play “Proof” and going to Busch Gardens with our matchy-matchy shirts.

I continued to keep up a new friendship with yoga get-togethers but first invited her to a baby goat cuddling event. I still haven’t gotten to a goat yoga event yet but will keep my eye out for that opportunity in the future

Our rental survived a week of icy weather and several hail storms!

I continue to prove our realtor wrong when I bike places. She said we wouldn’t find a house where I could walk to the grocery store and that it would be tough to bike places. We live a 5-minute walk to a grocery store and I bike whenever it works out (to our Hotworx and to Revolt mainly) instead of driving.

I volunteered at both the After Dark showcase and the Dreams and Monsters showcase at Lache. I even did something new by running the lights for one show and climbing into the ceiling rafters to release the backdrop curtains. Pictured below is when I was a pole kitten with my sticky pants and they didn’t protect my skin from pole burns 😦

I went to puppy yoga twice and kitten yoga once!

Jon camped out for hours so we could have the Franklin’s BBQ experience with our family in town.

Even more family visited this past year  – dad, brother, mom, and sister! Took the family to the Capital building, the LBJ library, Waco, San Antonio, and Bucc’ees!

My brother and I took a sushi-making class

Had a special 5th-anniversary dinner at The Oasis (thanks to Lorri’s gift card).

Was the very first customer ever for my favorite bubble tea brand: Happy Lemon (and 33rd to the grand opening of Teaspoon)

Went strawberry picking and visited the Alamo in San Antonio

Dog walked and did 6 house sits through Trusted House Sitters with stellar reviews in Austin, Pflugerville, and San Antonio with 11 different animals including a rabbit, chickens, a corgi, and a Great Pyrenees.

Friends also visited Austin and I got to spend time with them. I also created a one-day Austin itinerary.

Finally got my hands on one of the Texas donuts from Round Rock Donuts.

Went to the Rodeo even though it was outdoors in the summer!

Made the best cheesecake I’ve ever eaten (Courtesy of the best cheesecake recipe ever from LeRoy and Lewis)

Jon and I were trivia winners for Star Wars Trivia at Spare Time (and still had fun without winning at Marvel Trivia, Disney Trivia, and Harry Potter Trivia)

I did one of the most difficult things I’ve ever done with a Discover Scuba class and getting Open Water certification

Over the year I leveled up twice in Pokemon Go and had a Pokemon last a long time in a gym.

I got Pet CPR certified and worked on my house sit/pet sit go bag to take to sits and visits.

I committed to every challenge at my local Hotworx and even won a free month!

I sought out volunteer opportunities like POP cats, the Coffee Festival, and the Texas Book Festival.

I was finally able to live my dream surrounded by a thousand corgis at the Texas Corgi Roundup.

Jon and I planned and executed an amazing trip to Hawaii

 

I passed my 9th year doing pole and wrote up my thoughts (though I mostly am doing aerials now)

Went to my a Jack Black concert (The Spicy Meatball tour) and to the AMC screening of Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour as well as Metallica’s 2-night concert at AMC.

Finally went to the Museum of Illusions and the Cat Cafe in Austin.

Checked out several fun events like the NASA Lights and Peppermint Parkway.

Spent Christmas in Mexico doing amazing things that were easy like swimming with dolphins and things that were difficult like jumping into a cenote

I lost my Wordle streak, got it in one try, and kept up the longest streak (still going) this year.

I finished a few videogames and didn’t finish a few videogames with Jon this year: Super Mario Bros. Wonder, Disney Illusion Island, and Stardew Valley

I was invited to become a Yelp Elite Member! Several of my Yelp reviews were featured.

My blog rachelauthorbarnard.com received 2,668 page views, I made 15 posts, I got 77 likes and 8 comments. I made 68 Facebook posts (most are posted from Instagram). I made 94 posts on Instagram.

Next year I have several specific goals as well as life organization tasks:

  • Take Japanese language classes all year
  • Learn the Japanese alphabet
  • Make a Japan trip plan and start prep
  • House sit for either a pig, Ragdoll, Frenchie, or Shiba Inu
  • Create the best and most fitting Star Wars costume
  • Take a choux pastry-making class
  • clean out/organize
    • Phone
    • Watch
    • Photos
    • Videos
    • OneNote
    • Gmails
    • Outlook
    • Lastpass
    • Egnyte folders
    • Death Binder
    • Maps
    • Google Drive
    • Closets

2023 Physical Activity – Dance, Health, and Fitness

Aerial Dancing Highlights for 2023
2. I took 118 aerial classes
3. I spent $1,809 total
4. I spent 121.25 hours in class
5. I worked with 27 different instructors

Lifetime money spent (just for aerial classes): $11,241.24
2014 – $90
2015 – $422.21
2016 – $1777
2017 – $2594
2018 – $1465.74
2019 – $566
2020 – $225
2021 – $852.46
2022 – $1,439.83
2023 – $1,809

Lifetime total aerial classes: 737
2014 – 6
2015 – 19
2016 – 109
2017 – 139
2018 – 92
2019 – 37
2020 – 35
2021 – 63
2022 – 111
2023 – 118

Total time spent dancing +: 1055.15 hours (43.96 days)
2014 – 10.5 hours
2015 – 37.5 hours
2016 – 173.5 hours
2017 – 226 hours
2018 – 144.5 hours
2019 – 55.5 hours
2020 – 55.75 hours
2021 – 89.25 hours
2022 – 141.4 hours
2023 – 121.25 hours

Class Breakdown at different studios
Revolt – 90/118 = 76%
Lache – 14/118 = 12%
Bat City Circus – 8/118 = 7%
Black Widow Pole – 3/118 = 2%
Inner Diva – 2/118 = 2%
Polearity – 1/118 = 1%

Class Type Breakdown
Lyra – 37
Silks/Sling – 29
Pole – 17
Floorwork – 9
Flexibility – 9
Fly Pole – 2
Twerk – 3
Conditioning – 3
Other – including Burlesque, Chair, Tumbling, Trampoline, Trapeze, Straps, Pole Silks, Pole and Aerial Jam, Parkour and yoga mini class – 9

 

My fitness goals for 2023:

  • Lyra – unassisted front balance
    • I practiced unassisted front balances in nearly every lyra class I took last year with some more successful attempts than others.
    • In my last lyra class I was able to get 3 unassisted front balances in a row without being right on top of my hip bones!
    • I put in an unassisted front balance (wearing fins) for my December showcase performance.
  • Pole – handspring Ayesha
  • Floorwork – solid fish flop
    • I took several floorwork classes and we worked on rolls and fish flops and I’m certain my fish flop improved.
    • Looking at the one I put into my showcase video, it was a teeny bit rushed and not as big as I wanted it to be but in practice some of them got so much airtime!
  • Floorwork – work on a hand balance pose/transition that I can freestyle into/out of
    • Didn’t work on this goal specifically
  • Aerial – check out every studio in the Austin area
    • I spent most of my studio time at Revolt but did take a few classes at Inner Diva for the first time
  • Aerial – perform at least once in some capacity!
  • Aerial – Work on the correct position for flying trapeze hand catch prep
    • Didn’t really work on this one – only took 1 trapeze class
  • Aerial – continue to explore other fun classes/workshops like duo lyra, bungee, trampoline, etc.
    • I love trying new classes such as the pole silks workshop at the end of last year and the tumbling class I tried
  • Aerial – volunteer/help out in a show/comp
    • I volunteered for both the Lache After Dark showcase in February and the Dreams and Nightmares showcase in October
  • 1000 miles lifetime on my e-bike
    • I biked 243.9 miles (bringing the total miles biked on my e-bike to 1,161.4)
  • 321 miles on our new stationary bike
    • Got bored really fast with the stationary bike – maybe did 20-25 miles at the beginning of the year before putting my effort into pull-ups and classes

In other fitness accomplishments:

  • I went to 3 aerial shows (Cirque, Cirque du Soleil: Corteo, and the Revolt Fall/Winter showcase)
  • I took 7 yoga classes (including 1 kitten yoga and 1 puppy yoga class)
  • I joined a local Hotworx gym 8/1 and took 29 HIIT classes and 49 ISO classes

My fitness goals for 2024:

  • Work on a muscle up
  • Work on getting a handstand
  • Volunteer for one show
  • Perform at one show
  • Try out a new pole studio in the Austin area
  • Try a new class/workshop
  • Level up at Lache in Lyra

My favorite fitness photos from the year!

 

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