Houston Space Center NASA VIP Tour

Space Center Houston in the morning before the general public opening

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: Crew Systems Laboratory

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: Crew Systems Laboratory

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: Shuttle Avionics Integration Laboratory

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: Shuttle Avionics Integration Laboratory

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: Apollo Mission Control Center

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: Apollo Mission Control Center

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: ISS Mission Control

NASA VIP Tour – Mission Control: ISS Mission Control

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: NBL

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: NBL

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: NBL

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Astronaut Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Astronaut Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Astronaut Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Jake Garn Simulation and Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Jake Garn Simulation and Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Jake Garn Simulation and Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Jake Garn Simulation and Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Jake Garn Simulation and Training Facility

NASA VIP Tour – Astronaut Training: Jake Garn Simulation and Training Facility

 

Would I recommend the Astronaut Training Tour? Yes.

Would I recommend the Mission Control Tour? Yes.

If you can only do one, which would I choose? Mission Control Center, but the Astronaut Training is a close second!

Was it worth the price? $200/each person for each tour but still yes!

What was my favorite part? live ISS feed from the Mission Control Center, holding the $2 million astronaut glove, and the Neutral Buoyancy Lab pool.

What would I change? – add on for astronaut breakfast prior to the tour as the time conflicts with the start of the first tour.

SXSW Austin 2024 Volunteer Experience

A badge costs how much!!?? I had no idea that a person would spend that much money on one ticket. And what exactly is SXSW (and is it acceptable to write it out as South by Southwest)?

In my own words: SXSW is a combo conference and festival that is a two-week long party with music, comedy, film premiers, several big exhibits, speakers, interactive media, panels, networking get-togethers, and straight-up parties with free alcohol and food.

Door/walk up price for the top-tier badge (platinum) was $2095 but if you get your badge for next year it is on sale now for $1365 (limited presale). There are several tiers of badges/tickets. It’s all a bit chaotic and there’s so much going on. As a volunteer, I was granted a film/tv, music, or interactive badge for my 44 hours of volunteering during the festival (minimum requirements are 40 for this second tier badge or 56 for the platinum badge and an additional 6 for an EDU badge add-on). It gets confusing fast when you’re new. There is also the option to just get an EDU badge with 24 hours of volunteering if you can’t commit to the 40+ but you won’t get as much access with an EDU badge.

I love volunteering and volunteering for SXSW 2023 was no exception. This year I chose the Exhibitions Crew (you choose a crew and stick with that crew for the duration of your volunteer hours). I was wavering between Catering, Exhibitions, and Sessions but due to my own time constraints, I went with the Exhibitions Crew. Sign up early to get the crew and the shifts that you want! I went to the volunteer call on the second day and there were already shifts that were unavailable by then (1/22).

Pros to volunteering with Exhibitions: you can front stack your volunteer hours since they operate during the first weekend before EDU starts. The hours were not earlier than 7:30AM and not later than 9PM. If you want a calmer experience you can opt for “load in” days and handle the setup for the festival instead of interacting with the SXSW people. Exhibition shifts were all indoors in the mostly climate-controlled convention center or Fairmont hotel next door. Our crew leaders and managers were awesome to work with and the other volunteers were enthusiastic and interesting people to be around. It was all-around a calm environment where I got to hear so many fun SXSW stories from past years and get the scoop on how to make the most of my time. I loved getting an hour for breaks so I could get a feel for downtown during the festival and have enough time to eat and socialize.

Cons to volunteering: public transit is not ideal for volunteer hours and shift start/end times. The metro train runs every 40 minutes and the local bus transfer I had to take was not consistent or reliable. You are not supposed to use your badge perks on the same days that you volunteer. With the amount of hours required to get your badge, it’s difficult to find the time to use your badge and your perks, especially if you don’t live downtown or won’t commit to hanging out downtown on your off-volunteer days (ie have day job).

From the many people I talked to while volunteering, in lines waiting to get into venues, and walking around the festival, I got the sense that it was a busy year. Many people expressed disappointment that they couldn’t get into movies, parties, lounges, events, sessions/panels, etc. Rooms reached capacity as soon as they let people in and to me, it seemed like the downtown area was full of street chaos. If I had paid for my badge, I would have been disappointed at how difficult it was to get into events, especially hot events like the Civil War premier, The Fall Guy premier, any party/event with free alcohol and/or food, and speakers like Meghan Markle, Kirsten Dunst, Selena Gomez, Elijah Wood, Seth Green, Dylan Mulvaney, Jay Shetty, Justice, The Black Keys, Mike Judge, Judd Apatow, Ashley Judd, Brooke Shields, Jane Fonda and Janelle Monae. With possible red carpet appearances by Anne Hathaway, Emily Blunt, Riley Keogh, Ryan Gosling, Dev Patel, Nicolas Cage, Willem Dafoe, Peter Sarsgaard, Jake Gyllenhaal, Marisa Tomei, Jon Bon Jovi, Ed Harris, Morgan Freeman, Mark Wahlberg, LeBron James and Travis Kelce.

I spent over an hour in line with my ‘free’ yet still standby line ticket for the Industry party but had to bail because my local bus wasn’t running past a certain hour even though the metro train had expanded hours. I made several buddies in that line and watched as one dared another to sneak in the back door. I later saw one of those line buddies as I was monitoring the door to the Creative Industries Expo (CIE) later that week and said hi.

Some people experience SXSW luck – not just when preparation meets opportunity but when you are around the right place and make friends with the right people. Someone happened to bump into Anne Hathaway in the bathroom while we were waiting for the premiere of The Idea of You to start. I saw one of my neighbors while volunteering. One of the volunteers got a wristband to get into Trevor Noah’s live podcast event by walking up to the right person at the right time. By keeping my eyes and ears peeled I was able to score free C4, free Prime, free Red Bull, free Siete chips, and a free Voodoo Doughnut. I was a little late to RSVP to events that required advance tickets but if I’d been more on the ball I could have gotten access to even more free nibbles and drinks. As it was, even with my $1300 badge, I was stuck in standby-esque lines anytime I wanted to try going to an event with something free in it.

A short list of what I was able to experience at SXSW 2024:

  • Creative Industries Expo including Battle Bots
  • Registrant Lounge with free samples and 5* bathrooms
  • Equality Lounge with free drinks (not high in alcohol content but delicious) and appetizers
  • Funk Factory event by Pourri with lots of easy-to-grab Poo-Pourri travel-sized packs
  • Health & Medtech Happy Hour with an ‘open bar’ and appetizers (after waiting in line for 40 minutes)
  • A tour of the XR expo and EDU expo before they opened to the public during load in
  • Film premiere of The Idea of You (in the last 10 rows of the theatre after waiting in line for 2 hours)

I would volunteer again but would probably choose a Film and TV badge. I would RSVP and get tickets well in advance of the festival so I could go to some of the networking/parties and actually get into those events. I would try to make time to come to SXSW as a participant on a weekday and not just on the weekend. I would try to catch at least one music performance. I would try out the shuttle and check out other venues. I would carpool with other volunteers, if possible, to cut down transit time from 90 minutes to the 18-25 it takes to get from my house to downtown.

I would never pay for a badge – the value just isn’t there unless you are press or have good connections. A badge doesn’t grant you front-of-line status, it’s just another way to access SXSW events. Even Platinum badge holders have to wait in lines and won’t always get into events, sessions, and films. Just like going to Disney, going to SXSW is outside the reality of normal value per use. You won’t always get what you want but if you are strategic about what you are willing to spend time in line for, you can get into some buzzy events and be the cool kid. Then again, in a venue of 1300 people, if they all laugh at a joke the sound is deafening enough to drown out the next line of dialogue in a movie so I think I’ll have to watch that movie again when it comes out in May.

Birthday Freebies – Austin 2024

Using this handy dandy local person’s spreadsheet, I picked out the rewards I wanted and the places I would go this year for my birthday freebies!

Day-of Starbucks drink: Treinta Pistachio Cold Brew with Chocolate Cream Foam and Extra Pistachio Cream Foam, no ice, 2 vanilla syrup and 2 pistachio sauce

Dutch Bros the week after my birthday: iced cold brew with protein milk in their largest size

Free soda drink and free large popcorn at AMC the month of my birthday

Any pastry from Panera: I chose their croissant because I wanted to make it into an avocado and tomato sandwich at home

Jeni’s scoop of ice cream: I chose chocolate in a waffle bowl

Sprinkles: I tried out their gluten-friendly red velvet cupcake

Culinary Dropout – one dessert: I chose their Mississippi Mud Pie

Ulta Beauty – one sample size of their Good Genes

Not pictured – Alamo Drafthouse free treat: 3-Cookies

2023 in Financial Fitness, Net worth, and Budgeting

Finances Goals 2023:

  • Keep $10,000 in my emergency fund
    • I was able to keep my emergency cash above $10,000 all year.
  • $250,000 in assets
    • According to my potential real estate sale value and all my retirement accounts and cash combined, I have met this goal!

Financial Accomplishments of 2023:

  • I applied for a total of 622 usability studies and completed 43
  • I earned nearly $3,000 from studies last year paid out in gift cards, credits, checks, and cash
  • I was able to use $293 reimbursed mystery shopping dining out this year (and got to try some cool new restaurants in the process)
  • I’ve saved $618 on Too Good To Go since March of 2022 (the app that lets you rescue unsold food at your favorite spots from an untimely fate)
  • I earned $115.50 from browser extensions and $75 from receipt uploading (as gift cards)
  • Capital One Savings account increased their interest to 4.35% APY on all balances, letting my emergency fund earn me over the 2023 3.2% inflation rate
  • I opted for Gift Cards to Amazon for many of my usability study payouts and combined those purchases with slow shipping to earn $68 in digital credits
  • I earned over $500 in credit card rewards by utilizing my higher-earning card categories (I have a note on which cards are best for which spending categories)
  • I fully funded both my Roth IRA and my HSA for the year
  • My credit score increased to 800+

Finances Goals 2024

  • Apply to 365 usability studies
  • Make $2500 in side income including study gift cards and cash
  • Complete 4 mystery shops
  • Spend less than I make
  • Save for Japan trip 2025

2022 Finances update

 

I like to take the month of January (my birth month) to update my net worth and financial information

I use a retirement calculator to see where I am on my retirement needs journey and fill out the following for the year:

Desired Retirement Age

Location

Annual Income before taxes

Social Security Age for Benefits

Yearly savings

Annual Retirement Expenses

IRA value

401k value

Shares ‘value’

Real estate (sale price – loan)

HSA investments

Precious Metals/Physical Assets Value

General Investing

Emergency Fund + cash

Credit Score

I take a look at my assets (and net worth) and how they’ve changed over time:

Asset

2023 % of value

2022 % of value

2021 % of value

2020 % of value

2019 % of value

Stock Shares

18%

13%

10%

11%

16%

Real Estate

40%

49%

41%

0%

0%

Cash

4%

4%

8%

24%

16%

General Stocks

3%

3%

4%

21%

23%

Physical Assets

2%

2%

2%

3%

4%

401k

4%

4%

6%

7%

8%

IRA

23%

20%

25%

31%

32%

HSA

5%

5%

4%

3%

0%

Total

18.5% increase

16% increase

 76% increase

 53% increase

I like to check out where I am according to the government and possible future social security at SSA.gov

I look at how much I adhered to my monthly budgeting over the year and compare it to previous years’ spending:

 2018

 2019

 2020

 2021

 2022

 2023

Health

27%

2%

4%

2%

1%

 1%

Fitness

1%

1%

1%

4%

2%

 2%

Education

 0%

2%

0%

0%

0%

0%

Eating Out

4%

8%

3%

5%

4%

 3%

Gift

 0%

2%

4%

3%

0%

 1%

Groceries

7%

10%

11%

10%

6%

 5%

Household and clothing

3%

1%

4%

2%

10%

 4%

Travel

2%

5%

5%

3%

11%

 13%

Entertainment

2%

1%

1%

1%

2%

 3%

Bills – Transportation

7%

9%

7%

4%

3%

 5%

Bills – Housing+Utilities

9%

17%

17%

14%

16%

 15%

Bills – other (Phone)

3%

1%

4%

3%

3%

 4%

Other – Misc

2%

0%

3%

1%

3%

 2%

Charity

 0%

1%

1%

1%

0%

 0%

IRA contributions

9%

12%

12%

9%

6%

 7%

HSA contributions from paycheck

5%

 0%

 0%

4%

2%

 2%

Taxes paid

19%

28%

25%

22%

18%

 19%

Real Estate Investment

 NA

NA

NA

12%

13%

 18%

Each year I also update my Legacy Binder to make sure the information is correct and accessible:

  • Insurance
    • Personal Insurance (Disability – short term/long term, Life)
    • Renter’s/House Insurance
    • Health Insurance
    • Car Insurance and AAA if applicable
  • Location of Documents/Items
    • Lastpass login, iPhone login
    • Precious metals
    • credit cards/debit cards
    • Medical History
    • Birth Certificate
    • Social Security Card
    • Passport
    • Last Tax Returns
    • Last Will and Testament along with: Durable Power of Attorney for Finances, Durable Power of Attorney for Healthcare, and Funeral Wishes
    • Driver’s License
  • Account Information
    • Personal email and calendar
    • All banks including HSA and investing brokerage accounts
    • Business account and banking if applicable
    • Phone plan and account access
    • TSA Known Traveler
    • P2P digital payment shortcuts
  • Previous Addresses including the following information
    • Dates lived there
    • Landlord and contact information
    • Reason for moving
    • Rental price
  • Emergency Contacts including
    • Relationship
    • Birthday
    • Contact phone number
    • Contact email
    • Contact address

Goals and Accomplishments from 2023 and Future Goals for 2024

2024 Goals

  • 2024 Describe yourself in 3 words: Maximal, Goal-Oriented, Partner
    • 2024 Describe what you want more of in 3 words: Growth, Decluttering, Minimize
    • Theme for 2024: Organization
  • 2023 Describe yourself in 3 words: Impatient, Forgetful, Loving
    • 2023 Describe what you want more of in 3 words: Saving, Friendship, Experiences
    • Theme for 2023: Settling in
    • Goals list of 2023
  • 2022 Describe yourself in 3 words: Self, Partner, New
    • 2022 Describe what you want more of in 3 words: Success, Happy Moments, Learning
    • Theme for 2022: Realize
    • Goals list of 2022
  • 2021 Describe yourself in 3 words: Driven, Busy, Challenged
    • 2021 Describe what you want more of in 3 words: Vacation, Attentive, Patience
    • Theme for 2021: Plan
    • Goals list of 2021
  • 2020 Describe yourself in 3 words: Anxious, Quick, Analytic
    • 2020 Describe what you want more of in 3 words: Patience, Deliberate, Calm
    • Theme for 202: Hygge
    • Goals list of 2020
  • 2019 Describe yourself in 3 words: Driven, Efficient, Restless
    • 2019 Describe what you want more of in 3 words: Calm, Accomplished, Considerate
    • Theme for 2019: Minimize
    • Goals list of 2019
  • Goals list of 2018
  • Goals list of 2017
  • Goals list of 2016
  • Goals list of 2015

 

Instead of the usual “What were my goals” and “Did I accomplish them” bullet list, I will look back at what I’ve done since the beginning of 2023…

One of the funniest things I saw all year goes to Jon and his impromptu acting when he was chosen out of the crowd to be in the Paranormal Cirque show at the pop-up in Barton.

It was a blast spending my birthday in Florida, spending a night in my house, getting to see my sister perform in the play “Proof” and going to Busch Gardens with our matchy-matchy shirts.

I continued to keep up a new friendship with yoga get-togethers but first invited her to a baby goat cuddling event. I still haven’t gotten to a goat yoga event yet but will keep my eye out for that opportunity in the future

Our rental survived a week of icy weather and several hail storms!

I continue to prove our realtor wrong when I bike places. She said we wouldn’t find a house where I could walk to the grocery store and that it would be tough to bike places. We live a 5-minute walk to a grocery store and I bike whenever it works out (to our Hotworx and to Revolt mainly) instead of driving.

I volunteered at both the After Dark showcase and the Dreams and Monsters showcase at Lache. I even did something new by running the lights for one show and climbing into the ceiling rafters to release the backdrop curtains. Pictured below is when I was a pole kitten with my sticky pants and they didn’t protect my skin from pole burns 😦

I went to puppy yoga twice and kitten yoga once!

Jon camped out for hours so we could have the Franklin’s BBQ experience with our family in town.

Even more family visited this past year  – dad, brother, mom, and sister! Took the family to the Capital building, the LBJ library, Waco, San Antonio, and Bucc’ees!

My brother and I took a sushi-making class

Had a special 5th-anniversary dinner at The Oasis (thanks to Lorri’s gift card).

Was the very first customer ever for my favorite bubble tea brand: Happy Lemon (and 33rd to the grand opening of Teaspoon)

Went strawberry picking and visited the Alamo in San Antonio

Dog walked and did 6 house sits through Trusted House Sitters with stellar reviews in Austin, Pflugerville, and San Antonio with 11 different animals including a rabbit, chickens, a corgi, and a Great Pyrenees.

Friends also visited Austin and I got to spend time with them. I also created a one-day Austin itinerary.

Finally got my hands on one of the Texas donuts from Round Rock Donuts.

Went to the Rodeo even though it was outdoors in the summer!

Made the best cheesecake I’ve ever eaten (Courtesy of the best cheesecake recipe ever from LeRoy and Lewis)

Jon and I were trivia winners for Star Wars Trivia at Spare Time (and still had fun without winning at Marvel Trivia, Disney Trivia, and Harry Potter Trivia)

I did one of the most difficult things I’ve ever done with a Discover Scuba class and getting Open Water certification

Over the year I leveled up twice in Pokemon Go and had a Pokemon last a long time in a gym.

I got Pet CPR certified and worked on my house sit/pet sit go bag to take to sits and visits.

I committed to every challenge at my local Hotworx and even won a free month!

I sought out volunteer opportunities like POP cats, the Coffee Festival, and the Texas Book Festival.

I was finally able to live my dream surrounded by a thousand corgis at the Texas Corgi Roundup.

Jon and I planned and executed an amazing trip to Hawaii

 

I passed my 9th year doing pole and wrote up my thoughts (though I mostly am doing aerials now)

Went to my a Jack Black concert (The Spicy Meatball tour) and to the AMC screening of Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour as well as Metallica’s 2-night concert at AMC.

Finally went to the Museum of Illusions and the Cat Cafe in Austin.

Checked out several fun events like the NASA Lights and Peppermint Parkway.

Spent Christmas in Mexico doing amazing things that were easy like swimming with dolphins and things that were difficult like jumping into a cenote

I lost my Wordle streak, got it in one try, and kept up the longest streak (still going) this year.

I finished a few videogames and didn’t finish a few videogames with Jon this year: Super Mario Bros. Wonder, Disney Illusion Island, and Stardew Valley

I was invited to become a Yelp Elite Member! Several of my Yelp reviews were featured.

My blog rachelauthorbarnard.com received 2,668 page views, I made 15 posts, I got 77 likes and 8 comments. I made 68 Facebook posts (most are posted from Instagram). I made 94 posts on Instagram.

Next year I have several specific goals as well as life organization tasks:

  • Take Japanese language classes all year
  • Learn the Japanese alphabet
  • Make a Japan trip plan and start prep
  • House sit for either a pig, Ragdoll, Frenchie, or Shiba Inu
  • Create the best and most fitting Star Wars costume
  • Take a choux pastry-making class
  • clean out/organize
    • Phone
    • Watch
    • Photos
    • Videos
    • OneNote
    • Gmails
    • Outlook
    • Lastpass
    • Egnyte folders
    • Death Binder
    • Maps
    • Google Drive
    • Closets

2023 Physical Activity – Dance, Health, and Fitness

Aerial Dancing Highlights for 2023
2. I took 118 aerial classes
3. I spent $1,809 total
4. I spent 121.25 hours in class
5. I worked with 27 different instructors

Lifetime money spent (just for aerial classes): $11,241.24
2014 – $90
2015 – $422.21
2016 – $1777
2017 – $2594
2018 – $1465.74
2019 – $566
2020 – $225
2021 – $852.46
2022 – $1,439.83
2023 – $1,809

Lifetime total aerial classes: 737
2014 – 6
2015 – 19
2016 – 109
2017 – 139
2018 – 92
2019 – 37
2020 – 35
2021 – 63
2022 – 111
2023 – 118

Total time spent dancing +: 1055.15 hours (43.96 days)
2014 – 10.5 hours
2015 – 37.5 hours
2016 – 173.5 hours
2017 – 226 hours
2018 – 144.5 hours
2019 – 55.5 hours
2020 – 55.75 hours
2021 – 89.25 hours
2022 – 141.4 hours
2023 – 121.25 hours

Class Breakdown at different studios
Revolt – 90/118 = 76%
Lache – 14/118 = 12%
Bat City Circus – 8/118 = 7%
Black Widow Pole – 3/118 = 2%
Inner Diva – 2/118 = 2%
Polearity – 1/118 = 1%

Class Type Breakdown
Lyra – 37
Silks/Sling – 29
Pole – 17
Floorwork – 9
Flexibility – 9
Fly Pole – 2
Twerk – 3
Conditioning – 3
Other – including Burlesque, Chair, Tumbling, Trampoline, Trapeze, Straps, Pole Silks, Pole and Aerial Jam, Parkour and yoga mini class – 9

 

My fitness goals for 2023:

  • Lyra – unassisted front balance
    • I practiced unassisted front balances in nearly every lyra class I took last year with some more successful attempts than others.
    • In my last lyra class I was able to get 3 unassisted front balances in a row without being right on top of my hip bones!
    • I put in an unassisted front balance (wearing fins) for my December showcase performance.
  • Pole – handspring Ayesha
  • Floorwork – solid fish flop
    • I took several floorwork classes and we worked on rolls and fish flops and I’m certain my fish flop improved.
    • Looking at the one I put into my showcase video, it was a teeny bit rushed and not as big as I wanted it to be but in practice some of them got so much airtime!
  • Floorwork – work on a hand balance pose/transition that I can freestyle into/out of
    • Didn’t work on this goal specifically
  • Aerial – check out every studio in the Austin area
    • I spent most of my studio time at Revolt but did take a few classes at Inner Diva for the first time
  • Aerial – perform at least once in some capacity!
  • Aerial – Work on the correct position for flying trapeze hand catch prep
    • Didn’t really work on this one – only took 1 trapeze class
  • Aerial – continue to explore other fun classes/workshops like duo lyra, bungee, trampoline, etc.
    • I love trying new classes such as the pole silks workshop at the end of last year and the tumbling class I tried
  • Aerial – volunteer/help out in a show/comp
    • I volunteered for both the Lache After Dark showcase in February and the Dreams and Nightmares showcase in October
  • 1000 miles lifetime on my e-bike
    • I biked 243.9 miles (bringing the total miles biked on my e-bike to 1,161.4)
  • 321 miles on our new stationary bike
    • Got bored really fast with the stationary bike – maybe did 20-25 miles at the beginning of the year before putting my effort into pull-ups and classes

In other fitness accomplishments:

  • I went to 3 aerial shows (Cirque, Cirque du Soleil: Corteo, and the Revolt Fall/Winter showcase)
  • I took 7 yoga classes (including 1 kitten yoga and 1 puppy yoga class)
  • I joined a local Hotworx gym 8/1 and took 29 HIIT classes and 49 ISO classes

My fitness goals for 2024:

  • Work on a muscle up
  • Work on getting a handstand
  • Volunteer for one show
  • Perform at one show
  • Try out a new pole studio in the Austin area
  • Try a new class/workshop
  • Level up at Lache in Lyra

My favorite fitness photos from the year!

 

2022 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown
2021 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown
2020 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown
2019 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown
2018 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown
2017 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown
2016 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown
2015 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown

2023 Reading Challenge Books in Review and Recommended Reads

I spent $161.55 on books this year from Half Price Books, The Book Burrow, Bookpeople, Powell’s Online and directly from authors at events and online.

My favorite books I read this year:

  • First Things First by Barbara Delinsky
  • Radar Girls by Sara Ackerman
  • Wool by Hugh Howey
  • Happily Ever Island by Crystal Cestari
  • An Acquired Taste by Kelly Cain
  • A Perfect Vintage by Chelsea Fagan
  • Last Chance Books by Kelsey Rodkey
  • Ramón and Julieta by Alana Albertson
  • Oahu Revealed: The Ultimate Guide to Honolulu, Waikiki & Beyond by Andrew Doughty
  • I’m Glad My Mom Died by McCurdy, Jennette
  • Highly Suspicious and Unfairly Cute by Talia Hibbert
  • Truly Madly Guilty by Liane Moriarty
  • The Wedding Game by Meghan Quinn
  • The Chemistry of Love by Wilson, Sariah
  • Djinn Patrol on the Purple Line by Deepa Anappara
  • The Kiss Quotient by Hoang, Helen

My favorite Indie books that I read this year:

  1. The Beauty of a Spiral: A Novel by Beth Maddaleni
  2. Role Playing by Cathy Yardley
  3. Please Live for Me (Brotherhood Series Book 3) by M.W. McKinley
  4. Broken Perfect Lies: A Bodyguard Romance by Katie Wismer
  5. Demon Whispers (The Survival Chronicles, Book 1) by by N. R. Farrell

Out of the 58 books that I read:

8 Indie Books
4 Nonfiction Books

Other reading stats:

  • I read 4 books for book clubs
  • I read 14 books in anticipation of traveling/set in that location
  • I reviewed 9 books this year for a total of 432 reviews written lifetime
  • In September my review for The Beauty of a Sprial was featured on the homepage of Reedsy Discovery!
  • I won the Pflugerville Library Winter Reading Challenge

Next year I want to:

  • Read 6-12 books about Japan, Japanese history, Japanese culture, etc.
  • Read at least 2 books from President Obama’s Favorite Books of 2023
  • Read at least 2 nonfiction books

The books I read this year:

2022 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2021 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2020 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2019 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2018 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2017 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2016 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2015 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2023: AMC A-List – Watched and Recommended Movies for the Year

Total cost paid for movies watched in 2023 in theatres: $453.74… total value =$1,315.26
Favorite movie(s) of the year: Tetris and American Fiction
Total movies watched in theatres 2023: 71 (34 Dolby, 0 3D, and 0 Imax)
Movies watched in theatres as re-releases: Titanic 25th Anniversary, Return of the Jedi, and The Abyss
Worst movie(s) of the year: Aftersun and Sisu

Favorite Movies of the Year (Letterboxd link here)

  1. Tetris
  2. American Fiction
  3. Barbie
  4. The Hunger Games: The Ballad of Songbirds & Snakes
  5. Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse
  6. Dungeons & Dragons: Honor Among Thieves
  7. Wonka
  8. Next Goal Wins
  9. Nimona
  10. Gran Turismo
  11. Renfield
  12. The Flash
  13. Missing
  14. A Man Called Otto
  15. 80 for Brady
Worst Movies of the Year (Letterboxd link here)
  1. Aftersun
  2. Sisu
  3. Expend4ables
  4. The Last Voyage of the Demeter
  5. Saw X
  6. Five Nights at Freddy’s
  7. Women Talking
  8. Meg 2: The Trench
  9. Silent Night
  10. Aquaman and The Lost Kingdom
  11. Haunted Mansion
  12. My Big Fat Greek Wedding 3
  13. Old Dads
  14. Asteroid City
Streamed movies I recommend that aren’t listed below rated 3.5 stars or higher on Letterboxd:
  • Love at First Sight
  • You are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah
  • Day Shift
  • Red, White & Royal Blue
  • Extraction 2
  • Happiness for Beginners
  • Nimona
  • Flamin’ Hot
  • Murder Mystery 2
  • A Tourist’s Guide to Love
  • Ghosted
  • Tetris
  • Empire of Light
  • Tar
  • Causeway
  • Luckiest Girl Alive
  • Jumping from High Places
  • Triangle of Sadness
  • All Quiet on the Western Front
  • Shotgun Wedding
  • The Sea Beast
  • The Wedding Year
  • The Pale Blue Eye
  • Good Luck
  • Past Lives

Total cost paid for movies watched in 2022 in theatres: $295.88… total value =$1,167.40
Favorite movie of the year: Everything Everywhere All At Once (See top list on Letterboxd here)

Total cost paid for movies watched in 2021 in theatres: $253.55… total value =$1,019.57
Favorite movie of the year: CODA

Total cost paid for movies watched in 2020 in theatres and VOD: $112.7… total value =$327.34
Favorite movie of the year: Soul

Total cost paid for movies watched in 2019 in theatres: $278.15… total value = $1,281.67

Total cost paid for movies watched in 2018 in theatres: $297.42… total value = $839.45

“*” indicates a movie I particularly enjoyed and would recommend.

January: $62.35 value… paid $24.84

  • *A Man Called Otto ($11.99)
  • *M3gan ($12.59)
  • *Puss in Boots: The Last Wish ($12.59)
  • *Missing ($12.59)
  • Women Talking ($12.59)

February: $89.74 value… paid $24.84

  • Knock at the Cabin ($17.09) Dolby
  • *80 for Brady ($8.79)
  • Magic Mike’s Last Dance ($17.09) Dolby
  • Titanic 25 Year Anniversary ($16.09)
  • *Ant-Man and the Wasp: Quantumania ($18.09) Dolby
  • Cocaine Bear ($12.59)

March: $99.53 value… paid $24.84

  • *Operation Fortune: Ruse de guerre ($12.59)
  • Champions ($12.59)
  • *Scream VI ($12.59)
  • 65 ($12.59)
  • Shazam! Fury of the Gods ($18.09) Dolby
  • *John Wick: Chapter 4 ($13.99)
  • *Dungeons & Dragons: Honor Among Thieves ($17.09) Dolby

April: $85.84 value… paid $24.84

  • *The Super Mario Bros. Movie ($17.09) Dolby
  • *Air ($12.99)
  • *Renfield ($13.69)
  • Return of the Jedi ($11.99)
  • Big George Foreman: The Miraculous Story of the Once and Future Heavyweight Champion of the World ($12.99)
  • Sisu ($17.09) Dolby

May: $64.08 value… paid $40.15

  • *Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 3 ($18.09) Dolby
  • *Hypnotic ($12.59)
  • Fast X ($18.09) Dolby
  • *The Little Mermaid ($15.31) Alamo

June: $114.93 value… paid $24.84

  • *Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse ($18.99) Dolby
  • Transformers: Rise of the Beasts ($18.99) Dolby
  • *The Flash ($18.99) Dolby
  • *The Blackening ($12.99)
  • *Elemental ($12.99)
  • *No Hard Feelings ($12.99)
  • Indiana Jones and the Dial of Destiny ($18.99) Dolby

July: $105.93 value… paid $24.84

  • Asteroid City ($12.99)
  • Joy Ride ($12.99)
  • *Mission Impossible – Dead Reckoning Part One ($18.99) Dolby
  • Sound of Freedom ($12.99)
  • *Oppenheimer ($15.99)
  • *Barbie ($13.99)
  • Haunted Mansion ($17.99)

August: $207.21… paid $72.14

  • *Oppenheimer ($18.99) Dolby
  • Meg 2: The Trench ($17.99) Dolby
  • Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles ($17.99) Dolby
  • Cat Video Fest Austin ($12) Flix Brewhouse
  • *Gran Turismo ($17.99) Dolby
  • Talk to Me ($12.99)
  • Retribution ($12.99)
  • *Blue Beetle ($17.99) Dolby
  • Metallica #1 and Metallica #2 ($47.30) Not A-list
  • The Last Voyage of the Demeter ($12.99)
  • The Equalizer 3 ($17.99) Dolby

September: $92.94 value… paid $24.84

  • *Bottoms ($12.99)
  • My Big Fat Greek Wedding 3 ($12.99)
  • A Haunting in Venice ($17.99) Dolby
  • Expend4bles ($17.99) Dolby
  • *The Creator ($17.99) Dolby
  • *Dumb Money ($12.99)

October: $96.80 value… paid $96.80

  • Saw X ($12.99)
  • Killers of the Flower Moon ($14.99) Cinemark
  • Five Nights at Freddy’s ($12.99)
  • Taylor Swift | The Eras Tour ($21.53) Not A-list
  • Priscilla ($15.31) Alamo
  • The Marvels ($18.99) Dolby

November: $116.95 … paid $40.15

  • *Next Goal Wins ($5 – Screen Unseen)
  • *The Marvels ($18.99) Dolby
  • *Napolean ($17.99) Dolby
  • *The Hunger Games: The Ballad of Songbirds & Snakes ($18.99) Dolby
  • Thanksgiving ($9.69)
  • *American Fiction ($5 – Screen Unseen)
  • Wish ($12.99)
  • Silent Night ($12.99)
  • A Disturbance in the Force ($15.31) Alamo

December: $178.96 … paid $55.46

  • *Godzilla Minus One ($14.69) Dolby
  • The Abyss ($18.99) Dolby
  • Die Hard ($14.69) Dolby
  • *Poor Things ($15.31) Alamo
  • The Iron Claw ($18.99) Dolby
  • *Wonka ($17.99) Dolby
  • *Saltburn ($15.31) Alamo
  • Anyone But You ($12.99)
  • Ferrarri ($17.99) Dolby
  • Aquaman and The Lost Kingdom ($18.99) Dolby
  • The Color Purple ($12.99)

Cancún, Mexico trip plan, cost and reviews December 2023

After our amazing 10-day trip to Hawaii this past October where we did all the things and ate all the foods, we were excited for a relaxing yet shorter one-week trip to Cancún over the holiday break. Hawaii may have a culture that is unique but it is still a US territory. As silly and obvious as it sounds, Mexico is a different country with its own language, culture, identity, and customs. Perhaps with luck, preparation, and additional fees/costs, you will have a smooth vacation. That was not our case.

My partner had previously been to Cancún. It was a blast for him and he experienced very few difficulties. Our trip last week was full of obstacles and issues. It was also more expensive than I anticipated.

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Oahu, HI trip plan and reviews October 2023

I meticulously plan 95% of my trips. With a new destination, it’s difficult to know everything in advance, and sometimes unaccounted-for things just happen. However, you can both create a fantastic trip by planning and enjoying the trip for months before it’s actually time to hop on the plane. Roll your eyes all you want, but I love to pack and create lists and info sheets for my trip destinations. The following are tips, tricks, issues, lists, and actual details and reviews from my partner and I’s recent trip to Oahu, Hawaii.

Cost breakdown for 2 people for 10 days in Oahu, HI: $10,607
  • Activities: ~$2962
    • Lei Greeting: $83.03
    • Honolulu Snorkel Tour: $186 +$30 tip
    • Hanauma Bay tickets: $51.18
    • Hanauma Bay tickets: $51.18
    • Pearl Harbor and Circle Island tour: $317.53
    • USS Bowfin Admission tickets: $48
    • 2 Tank scuba dive for open water certified divers: $410.74 +$30 tip
    • Iolani Palace audio tour: $58.22
    • Byodo-Inn temple: $5
    • Diamond Head Hike with parking: $21.53
    • Surf Lesson for 1: $115.18+$25 tip
    • Nutridge Luau with transportation from Waikiki: $418.50
    • Jurassic Park adventure tour: $293.08
    • Secret Island Beach Adventure: $113
    • Ha Breath of life: $140
    • Rainbow reef snorkeling: $52.35
    • Laniwai LomiLomi couples massage: $486.36
    • Lyra class for 1 at Polearity: $26.18
  • Transportation with car rental, and Uber/Lyft within Waikiki and to/from airport in Austin: ~$641
    • Avis rental for 10 days: $387.52
    • Ubers to/from airport: $77.22
    • Gas for rental: $47.39
    • Ubers during trip: $128.84
  • Roundtrip flights: $1378 for 2 people from Austin (includes $60 checked bag x2)
  • Housing: $3600 for 2 people for 10 nights or $360/night average
    • Airbnb for 7 nights: $2180
    • Courtyard Marriott North Shore for 2 nights: $846.88
    • Disney’s Aulani Resort for 1 night: $572.88 (after using $175 gift card)
  • Food, snacks and gifts: ~$2026

Activities and Reviews (reservations include some restaurants) 

Leigreeting.com $83.03 for the Makahiki honeymoon lei greeting

Includes a custom sign, one single-strand orchid lei, and one kukui nut lei
If it’s your first trip to Hawaii this is a nice touch to start your vacation but very much unnecessary if you are going to a Luau or a hotel that will greet you with a lei. We had booked an Airbnb for the first week and a Luau on day 6 of our trip so this was something special that we were willing to include in our vacation budget. I wouldn’t bother doing it again but it was special to be greeted by someone at baggage claim and to get our first taste of Hawaii. The service was easy to book and communicate with after disembarking from our plane.

Duke’s Waikiki $140 for two people including drinks

Making restaurant reservations slipped my mind until the month before our trip and all the dinnertime reservations were claimed for both Duke’s and House without a Key. We were able to snag a 9:15PM on our arrival day. I don’t recommend eating a meal at 9:30PM after traveling all day and adding 5 hours to your day. Food at Duke’s was on the pricier side but they did give us free pie, let us move from a middle table to a table overlooking the balcony and the music (which ended very shortly after we sat down), and there was live music and you can hear the ocean. The food was not my favorite, but we felt special and secluded at our balcony table after we moved. I would recommend if you can get a nice table with a view of the live entertainment or just drinks on the patio. Our favorite was the coconut mojito and we would have gone back to the patio for drinks and music, but probably not the food.

Honolulu snorkel tour

$186 basic package for 2 includes all your snorkel gear and a boat ride out to the snorkel area
https://www.hawaiitours.com/to-do/honolulu-snorkel-tour/


There are so many snorkel tours available and you will see why when you take your boat ride out with up to 35 people in your boat and find several more boats loaded up with passengers trying to see the turtles. There’s enough ocean for everyone and the turtles surface in several areas so we didn’t feel like it was too crowded in that area. Our boat was also half full, as a full boat would have felt crowded and uncomfortable. You have to wear a life jacket when in the water and you won’t mind it since the waves are a little unnerving even if the salt water helps keep you afloat. We brought our own snorkel gear so we probably didn’t get the full value out of this tour. The guides were polite, fun, and cheerful. We saw several turtles and were able to practice with our snorkel gear prior to our scuba dive. I would highly recommend a snorkel tour unless you know someone with a boat or don’t mind staying close to shore.

Pearl Harbor and Circle Island Tour

https://www.hawaiitours.com/to-do/pearl-harbor-oahu-circle-island/ $317.53 for 2 people, includes pickup from Waikiki
Highly recommend this tour, especially earlier on in your trip. Our guide, Jordan, was a local and he was very knowledgeable. He was also a calm driver and a cheerful person. My only comment on this all-day tour was that the stop at the Dole plantation was not long enough to enjoy our dole whips, let alone look in all the nooks and crannies of the store. We had enough time to tour a submarine (extra cost of $48 to tour the USS Bowfin) at Pearl Harbor along with our included tour (with ferryboat ride) of the Arizona Memorial.

Lunch was a stop at the Kahuku Sugar Mill food truck area and we were delighted with our food choice of Da Bald Guy (recommended by our guide as well as from our research beforehand). Our tour ended closer to 3:30PM than the scheduled 5:30PM time.

Hawaiian Diving Adventures

https://hawaiiandiving.com/reef-dives-daily-dive-trips ($410.74 for two certified divers on a 2-tank dive with 1 flippers rental)
There were 5 divers on this excursion, including myself and Jon. One diver had recently bought new equipment, one had not dived since January, one had never dived before, and the two of us were recently certified. There were three dive guides on board and we felt very safe in their hands. The person who had never dived before had his own guide while the other two guides took turns accompanying the rest of us 4 on a little tour of the pip and reef at Kewalo Basin. They provided wetsuits and I was glad to wear them because it was a bit cold and necessary for me to be comfortable. Jon said he wasn’t cold without one. The other lady didn’t have one and said she was too cold to do her second dive. We saw eels, fish, turtles, and a Spanish Dancer. It was cool to get so much closer to the reef than on our snorkel tour. We were even graced by a monk seal saying hi 10 feet from our boat in between our dives. One of the guides said they were very rare and was quite surprised that the little guy came up to the boat. If you’re into scuba diving, I would recommend this company.

House Without a Key $152.88 dinner and drinks for two

We were again not able to make an earlier reservation but snagged a 7:45PM, which was good timing since we only snacked following our scuba adventure. Unfortunately, live music and hula ended at 8 p.m., so we didn’t get to see much of the live entertainment other than a single guitar singer with quiet background music. The Melted Memories 4 cheese pizza with Hawaiian honey was one of the best pizzas I’ve had in a long time and I really enjoyed my coconut martini. If you can snag a reservation closer to 7 p.m., I would highly recommend this spot for dinner, drinks, and entertainment.

Hanauma Bay Snorkeling $50
https://hanaumabaysnorkel.com/

If there is one place you should go on Oahu, it’s Hanauma Bay, but be warned that it won’t be the easiest reservation you make. Tickets sell out within minutes, especially if you need more than 1 ticket. They only have so many tickets per day and release tickets at 7AM. Our first attempt to book tickets on our phones was during our Circle Island Tour and we managed to snag an 11:30AM after the website was slow to load. Using our iPad the next day I was able to get an earlier slot. Because our tickets were near midday and they only had 300 parking spots, we decided to Uber (~$34). There was a line of cars waiting to get into the lot so we made the right decision not to drive but on the way back there were fewer ride shares and we waited 15-20 minutes for our pickup. The snorkeling at Hanauma was amazing because the reef is so close and it’s a nature preserve. There are so many fish and so many huge fish at that. It was a little disconcerting how close the reef was as we snorkeled above it. 11:30AM was hotter than 7:30AM but we felt like we got to see as much wildlife as there was to see so we didn’t go back the following day for our 7:30AM reservation. If you have a rental car, don’t use your phone to book, and try to grab one of those earlier slots so you can get parking!

Iolani Palace audio tour $58.22 for audio devices for two

https://www.iolanipalace.org/visit/tours-admission/guided-tours/
The only reservation that was booked up in advance was the docent tour, but there was daily availability during open hours for the audio tour. I’m not sure you can just walk around the palace without booking an audio tour. There were a lot of museum employees to make sure you stayed in the public areas and to point you to the next stop on your ‘tour,’ which felt a little pushy. Don’t forget to walk across the street to view the King Kamehameha statue.

Fireworks over the ocean

https://www.gohawaii.com/islands/events/hilton-hawaiian-village-fireworks
This is where our 33rd-floor view came in handy since we didn’t have to try to find a viewing spot from the beach. The fireworks lasted all of 3-5 minutes and were about as grand as the nightly fireworks at Disney. Fun but not worth stressing to see.

Byodo-Inn Temple

$5 for the two of us
Parking is minimal and the temple is small – easy quick pit stop. The Koi Pond has so many Koi!

Aloha Stadium Swap Meet $4 total for two people

https://alohastadium.hawaii.gov/aloha-stadium-swap-meet-marketplace/
So much of the same stuff, mostly made outside of Hawaii. If you go here at the beginning of your trip you can probably snag a good deal on a Hawaiian shirt but otherwise, the hype was not worth the trip. I had some of the worst bubble tea I’ve ever had in my life here.

Diamond Head Hike

$21.53 for one car parking and two people admittance with a 4pm-6pm time slot
We chose to arrive between 4pm-4:30PM and had to be out before 6PM. It’s a 30-40 minute hike with uneven smoothed rocks and dirt. There are stairs and a tunnel. It’s not the easiest or the most difficult of hikes but it’s in the sun and if you’re not used to hiking up elevation, this may be tough for you.

The view is completely worth the hike, even if there are 20 other people trying to take the same picture as you.

Surf lesson with Surfer Girl Academy

$115.18 with one other stranger but a private lesson costs more.
I called the day before to ask for a lesson and they told me I could show up to the 10AM lesson and said to pay onsite. This was the day our elevator broke and we had to walk down 33 flights of stairs. The surf lesson was both amazing and scary. We were given a 2-minute safety and tips speech before both of us in the lesson were shown how to get up on the board. We each had one attempt to get up while the instructor held the board steady near the beach. Then we paddled out to the waves. We had to paddle far and it wasn’t my hands/arms that were tired but my shoulders and neck because you have to keep your chin up to stay out of the surf on your way out. I was able to stand up on almost every wave except the one that was too small and the one I tried to do myself. I can imagine it being unsafe and not fun to try to just surf yourself without any prior experience because the one time I tried to judge when to get up myself, I immediately fell hard into the water and swallowed salt water. Highly recommend if you are at all athletically inclined. Surfer Girl Academy was very laid back and I liked the instructor John.

Nutridge Luau $418.50 for two people includes transportation from Waikiki

https://experiencenutridge.com/
75 person max -More personable experience
Bring bug spray and don’t come too hungry – dinner is hours after arrival


I chose this Luau because it was one of two that were ‘local’ and it was supposed to be smaller, more intimate, and with a fantastic view of downtown Honolulu to the Waianae mountain range. In reality, the 75 people were 84 and it felt more crowded than we would have liked. Our seats had a large mango tree blocking any sort of view outside of the property while eating. There were 4 activities and they were not that interesting and could only accommodate a few people at a time. The entertainment and storytelling were the best parts, especially since we lucked out and happened to be seated in the front row. I would definitely have enjoyed this experience more if it was at the beginning of our trip and our seats during dinner and sundown had a better view. The food was okay. They don’t have poi and though it is ‘buffet’ style you don’t get to serve yourself. It is also a catered meal so you miss out on the reveal of the pig from the imu pit. I wanted more leafy greens and they only put a few on my plate and ran out before we could try for ‘seconds.’

IMHO not worth the price. You can drive up and park on the lookout for the same views at sunset or during the day. Choose a different luau or skip this type of experience and opt for a local restaurant like Highway Inn instead.

Jurassic Park Adventure Tour $293.08 for two

https://www.kualoa.com/jurassic-adventure-tour/#


After trying to decide which tour to go with we decided on the Adventure Tour. After visiting the ranch, I think we would have preferred the UTV tour but it sells out the fastest so you have to book that in advance.

The Kualoa Ranch feels like it’s all about making the most money out of tourists, as you don’t even get to see all the Jurassic Park stops during this tour. You have to book the UTV tour to see some more sites and the Hollywood Tour to see the rest.

The ranch has also attempted to preserve the natural aesthetic of the location so even though you are stopping at movie sites, sometimes it’s just a hill with a log or a piece of cement with a roof. You are also made to arrive early to check in which feels like a gimmick to get you to buy something from their gift shop.

Secret Island Beach Adventure at Kualoa Ranch $113 for two

After waiting the required 45 minutes after checking in, we were told that the bus that transports everyone to the canoes that take you to the island was full. Even though some people didn’t check in early, they were let on the bus first. We arrived at the island around 12:30PM after checking in at 11:10AM. The canoe back to the bus that takes you to the ranch leaves at 2:45PM (and the last canoe is at 3PM). We were told that this tour was ~3 hours but in reality, we only had 2.5 hours and all the activities and boats are ‘first come first served’ so there was nothing available for water activities when we arrived (kayaks and SUPS). There were too many people on the island in my opinion but we still had a great time. We took the 3PM canoe back and the line for the bus looked like 3 busloads long but we managed to get onto the first bus. I don’t think I’d book with Kualoa again because of the way they treat their customers’ time, but if you do book this adventure, be prepared to wait.

Polynesian Cultural Center Ha Breath of Life at the Pacific Theatre $140 for two

Our hotel had a deal for tickets and we walked over to the show. The parking lot is huge but it gets full so if you drive come early or be prepared to walk from the far corners. The show is about 75 minutes long and it’s a visual show. Worth the $70/ticket price and walking around their little shopping area beforehand is fun. If you have extra time on your trip, it may be worth checking out the Polynesian Cultural Center when they’re open and adding on this show at the end of your day.

Rainbow Reef Snorkeling at Aulani $25/person

I think it would be amazing to do a Discover Scuba in this little man-made aquarium-reef. There are no waves. There are so many fish. It’s clear and beautiful and there is a viewing area. This reef may seem small but it’s big enough to have a really nice time snorkeling (though the water was colder than the open ocean). This will take less of your day than a snorkeling or scuba tour and it costs less. Even your kids can do it! Highly recommend.

LomiLomi couples massage at Laniwai spa at Aulani $486.36 for two

With the price of a massage, you get access to their spa area for a few hours. The Disney resort was the busiest place we went during our vacation and it was nice to be able to spend time at the spa where access is very limited and there were no kids yelling and running around. The massage was nice but not outstanding. If you have the money and the time to spend, this is a nice activity, but not special to Hawaii per se.

Hotels and Airbnb

Disney’s Aulani Resort

This was the most expensive per-night hotel that we booked and the last night of our trip. Even though we paid for one night, we were able to check in early and use the amenities before our room was assigned. We would have been able to use the resort amenities after checking out but we had a plane to catch. The pools were crowded and the lazy river and slides were busy, but we had fun for a few hours. We also visited one of the lagoons (#1) for swimming and tried snorkeling but it was sandy-bottomed and murky even away from all the swimmers so we stayed near shore. The resort feels humongous but the level of crowds made it immediately recognizable as a Disney property. The hotel staff were accommodating and courteous. If you don’t mind kids running around inside and outside of the hotel and you want to check out Moana, Stitch, Mickey, and friends then I would recommend this hotel if you can afford it (even for 1 night). However, there are several other resort hotels and high-end hotels to check out. After spending a night here, I would rather spend a night at a different high-end hotel next time.

Courtyard Marriott North Shore Oahu

Options for hotels are limited outside of Waikiki and Honolulu and some have a minimum night stay. We wanted to spend time on the other side of the island and this hotel is located between Kualoa Ranch and the North Shore. I wouldn’t have minded spending more time at this hotel since we were not able to take advantage of all their activities and amenities. They were very accommodating and helpful at the front desk. The live music in the evenings felt intimate. There weren’t crowds of people when we were there (unlike the Polynesian Cultural Center shopping and show next door) and it felt like a much more relaxed environment. Highly recommend it, especially since the per night cost is lower than many hotels on Waikiki – but you’re going to need a rental car if you spend time outside of Waikiki.

AirBnB Waikiki

Pricing for a partial or full ocean view at hotels in Waikiki was out of my budget comfort zone. We were able to spend 10 days on Oahu vs. 7 because we opted to spend the majority of our time in an AirBnB that came with a free parking spot. I chose this particular room because of its theming, the view, the location, and the swing chair. The room came with one caveat – only 1 elevator would be working. We would be on the 33rd floor out of 40 floors. After much discussion over price savings and the terrific view, we decided to be on Hawaii time waiting for the elevator, however; the situation with the elevator was worse than we realized. The elevators were not made to be outdoor elevators and they were on the outside of the building, hugging the wall. The AC was constantly dripping onto passengers, the floor, or a towel and it smelled like dirty feet most of the time. Out of our 7 days, one morning the one working elevator was not working at all. If you tried to get on the elevator from any floor but the lobby, it may already be too full for more passengers and you’d have to wait for the next trip. Only the lobby floor would indicate which floor the elevator was on, so you would never know if the elevator was coming or not, causing some mild anxiety. Having a free parking space was amazing since hotels will charge a nightly fee that can get as high as $70 to park a car, but the parking lot curving around the central area of the building was not wide enough for two cars to pass safely and oftentimes people would have cars too large to fit in their spaces or too many vehicles in one space making it difficult to navigate around them.

The elevator situation and the parking situation made us less inclined to want to take a spontaneous trip outside of our condo. The fact that you are a short walk to the beach doesn’t matter as much if it takes you 5-10 minutes to wait for the elevator (if it’s even working) and you get to spend 2-3 long minutes with a terrible smell as it slowly descends. This particular unit was well stocked and there were so many details that made our stay so much better, like a beach bag, snorkel gear, all sorts of sunscreens, binoculars, and beach towels. The AC worked well and kept us cool. Ultimately we wouldn’t book in this building again because of the elevator but finding a room with a view that came with a parking spot that was more budget-friendly than many hotels was very helpful in elevating parts of our vacation without breaking our budget.

Food and restaurants

My favorite drink: Coconut mojito from Duke’s Waikiki or Da Kine latte from Coffee Gallery
My favorite snack: Spam musubi from ABC or fresh passion fruit from the fruit stand


My favorite entrée: Fried poke from Da Bald Guy or salmon and ahi poke bowl from Morning Catch


My favorite dessert: Dole Whip from Kono’s Northshore, the Haupia pie from McDonald’s, or even the tiny haupia square from Highway Inn’s tasting plate

Honorable mentions:

  • The Big Pig Quesadilla from Kono’s Northshore was delicious and stuffed with slow-roasted pork!
  • Poi donut from Liliah Bakery
  • Spicy ahi hand roll from ABC
  • Li hing pineapple from Costco
  • Boneless Kalbi from Da Bald Guy
  • Salmon and fish from Da Bald Guy
  • Melted Memories 4 cheese pizza with Hawaiian honey from House without a Key
  • Lili Coco drink from Highway Inn
  • Loco Moco from Highway Inn
  • Li hing malasada from Leonard’s Bakery
  • Pistachio ice cream from Black Sheep
More food and my hot takes

Acai bowls – overpriced and overhyped.

Poke bowls – so good when it’s fresh! Worth paying more for better quality.

Shave ice – save it for the kids or on a hot day when you need a sugar pick-me-up that will also cool you off.

Malasadas – they didn’t impress me (especially the filled ones). My favorite was the li hing malasada which was noticeably fresher than all the others.

Ube donuts and mochi donuts – my favorite kind of donut!

Poi and other local Hawaiian foods – I didn’t love any of these dishes very much but absolutely loved the haupia square they added to this plate at Highway Inn

Loco moco – quite salty but otherwise delicious. Best shared.

Any drinks with pineapple or coconut flavors are worth trying. The ones with the whipped pineapple or coconut on top were the best

What I would have planned differently now that we’ve taken our trip:

Our time change from Austin to Hawaii was 5 hours and I didn’t quite realize that we wouldn’t be sleeping in all week. We could have planned more of our activities earlier in the day without worrying about being tired in the morning because our bodies were 5 hours ahead!

More time at the Disney resort since we checked out before 8AM and could have taken advantage of the resort that day had we not been on the plane already.

Spending more time outside of Waikiki. Most of the food I wanted to try was in the Waikiki and surrounding area but there were so many more hikes and beaches that we didn’t get to experience because we only budgeted 2 days in the North Shore area and spent most of that time during the day at Kualoa ranch.

Though the view from our AirBnB was spectacular, we were able to snag views from most of our excursions. I don’t think it’s worth it to pay more for a view from your hotel. Save your money and stay at a lower-end hotel in the location that is most convenient for you!

Spend more time outside of Waikiki. We drove through interesting places but didn’t stop because we had all our luggage in the car and it’s not recommended to leave it unattended in the vehicle. We would have liked to enjoy more of the hikes and beaches outside of Waikiki but didn’t have enough time.

Rent a smaller car. We got a midsize car and it would have made driving and parking easier if we had booked a compact car.

Choose a different Luau and spend more time researching what Luau to book. We weren’t overly pleased with Nutridge Luau but we don’t have anything to compare it to, so perhaps any Luau isn’t worth the price. We should have also booked the luau for earlier in the trip because it felt touristy and cheesy and that would have been better at the beginning of our trip.

Final thoughts. Planning a trip makes for a better trip. Planning a trip allows you to experience the trip longer than the actual vacation. Not every detail will be perfect but with some Aloha spirit, you can have an amazing time.

Trip planning checklist:
  1. Watch videos to get a sense of location, pricing, food, activities, etc.
  2. Decide Island
  3. Decide Dates
  4. Decide Budget
  5. Decide Activities
  6. Book Flights
  7. Book hotels/Airbnb
  8. Check back in with activities – links to actual purchase sites and all questions to ask – final budget
  9. Create Packing list
  10. Book Rental car
  11. Book activities that require reservations: scuba, Jurassic Park adventure Tour, Nutridge Luau w/ transport, Pearl Harbor and Circle Island tour, Turtle canyon snorkel, Iolani Palace Tour, Secret island beach adventure or snorkeling North Shore, Lei greeting
  12. Book restaurant reservations if applicable: Duke’s Waikiki, House Without a Key, anything on Disney property
  13. Travel Purchases: $1 and $5s for parking and tips
  14. Decide must eats and book restaurant reservations
  15. Learn Lei etiquette, surf etiquette, and Hawaiian phrases
  16. Verify travel restrictions; airport info at destination; refresh on scams/issues to avoid
  17. Pack; charge electronics; download music and movies for plane flight; arrange transportation to the airport, download apps, and login

Helpful apps you can use while on your trip:

Tips I noted before our trip:
  • Tip* Avoid the sun between 11A.M. and 2 P.M.
  • Tip* Surf report call 808-973-4383
  • Tip* shark attacks occur in murky water at dawn or dusk and if you see man of war on the beaches don’t go in the water. 9-10 days after the full moon the box jellyfish come ashore and don’t touch!
  • Tip* Avoid driving into Honolulu 7-8:30AM and 3-7PM on weekdays and into Honolulu after 7PM on weekends
  • Tip* Sugarloaf Pineapples are the best

Movies we watched or wanted to watch that were set/filmed in Oahu or Hawaii
Movie Date Location notes
Jurassic Park 1993 Manawaiopuna Falls, Hanapepe Valley, Kauai Island (chopter arrival), Kualoa Ranch, Kamehameha Hwy, Kaneohe, Oahu Island, Waikoko Forest, Kauai Island (Jurassic Park gate), Allerton Garden, National Tropical Botanical Garden, Kauai Island (discover eggs)
The Lost World: Jurassic Park 1997 LA and Kauai
Jurassic Park III 2001
Pearl Harbor 2001 Ford Island, Pearl Harbor, USS Arizona Memorial, Pearl Harbor, Byodo-In Temple – 47-200 Kahekili Hwy
Lilo & Stitch 2002 Kauai
Blue Crush 2002 Marriott’s Ko Olina Beach Club Oahu, Hawaii Film Studio
50 First Dates 2004 Kaneohe Bay, Sea Life Park, Waimanalo, Halona Blowhole, Hanauma Bay, Dillingham Ranch, Waialua, Kualoa Ranch, Kaʻaʻawa Valley, He’eia Kea Boat Harbor, Oahu, Hawaii
Forgetting Sarah Marshall 2008 Honolulu, Laie point, oahu, Turtle Bay Resort
Princess Kaiulani 2009 Iolani Palace
Soul Surfer 2011 Oahu, Kauai, Hawaii
The Descendants 2011 3849 Old Pali Road, Honolulu, 155 Dowsett Avenue, Honolulu, St. Francis Medical Center, 2933 Kalakaua Avenue, 4328 Papu Circle, Honolulu, 4420 Aukai Avenue, Honolulu, 55-190 Kamehameha Hwy, Laie, Waikiki,
Jurassic World 2015 Makai Research Pier, Oahu Island (where the protagonists arrive)
Point Break 2015 Surf scenes at Waimea Bay Beach Park
Aloha 2015 Honolulu, Oahu, Hawaii, The Breakers Hotel – Waikiki
Moana 2016
Mike and Dave Need Wedding Dates 2016 Turtle Bay Resort, Kualoa Ranch, Kahuku, Kamehameha Highway, Waimea Bay, Honolulu, Laie
Snatched 2017 Honolulu, Waianae
Jurassic World Fallen kingdom 2018 Halona Beach, Oahu Island (dinosaur chase beach refuge)
The Wrong Missy 2020 The Four Seasons in Ko Olina
Finding ’Ohana 2021 Honolulu, Kaneohe, Kualoa Ranch, Leonard’s Bakery
Jurassic world dominion 2022

Books I read (I didn’t finish reading through my list and didn’t get to Honolulu or Shark Dialogues but I read all the other books)
Books Description
Oahu Revealed Guidebook on all things Oahu.
The Descendants – Kaui Hart Hemmings A dysfunctional family that has to pull itself together as their wife/mother lies dying in the hospital.
Juniors by Kaui Hart Hemmings Seventeen-year-old Lea Lane must navigate a complex web of friendships and relationships after she and her mother move into the guest cottage of the fabulously wealthy West family in Honolulu.
Summer Bird Blue – Bowman, Akemi Rumi goes to live with her aunt in Hawaii, in order to give her mom the space and time she needs to process the death of Rumi’s younger sister, Lea.
Sharks in the Time of Saviors by Kawai Strong Washburn When supernatural events revisit the Flores family in Hawaii – with tragic consequences – they are all forced to reckon with the bonds of family, the meaning of heritage, and the cost of survival.
Calvin Coconut: Hero of Hawaii by Graham Salisbury Hawaii boy Calvin Coconut has come up with the best idea ever for his sister Darci’s birthday party. But a huge tropical storm hits the islands and threatens everything. It rains and rains. And rains.
Paddling My Own Canoe by Audrey Sutherland This is the story of fulfilling her dream, of planning then implementing, of launching and advancing, of retreating and reconnoitering, of challenge and success exploring Molokai.
Radar Girls by Sarah Ackerman The story of new recruits and unsung heroes. After the attack on Pearl Harbor, Daisy, a gifted horse trainer, enlists in a top-secret program that recruits women to replace men who have joined the war.
Under the Blood-Red Sun by Graham Salisbury (1994) Tomikazu Nakaji’s biggest concerns are baseball, homework, and a local bully until life with his immigrant Japanese family in Hawaii changes drastically after the Pearl Harbor bombing 12/1941.
To Wake the Giant by Jeff Shaara An exciting war story that will provide a better understanding of Pearl Harbor
Honolulu by Brennert, Alan Instead of the prosperous young husband and the chance at an education she has been promised, Jin is quickly married off to a poor, embittered laborer who takes his disappointments out on his new wife, forcing her to make her own way in a strange land.
Shark Dialogues by Kiana Davenport An epic saga of seven generations as a Hawaiian woman gathers her four granddaughters together in an erotic tale of villains and dreamers, queens and revolutionaries, lepers and healers
Between the Deep Blue Sea and Me by Lurline Wailana McGregor Moana’s struggles to understand her ancestral responsibilities, mend relationships, and find her identity as a Hawaiian in today’s world.
Kaiulani: The People’s Princess, Hawaii, 1889 by Ellen Emerson White After being forcibly annexed by the U.S., the Hawaiian people turned to the young Princess Kaiulani in the hopes that their toppled monarchy could be restored.
And my packing list for the 10-night trip:

  • Plane outfit Outgoing and Plane outfit Returning
    • Bright yellow water shoes, Socks, Comfy pants, Comfy shirt, Sweater, underclothes
  • Seat Bag Folding backpackSeat Bag Folding backpack
    • Travel Pouch for electronics, Ipad charger, Phone, Phone charger brick (2), Phone charger cord (2), Carplay cord, Watch charger, Watch, Airpods, Airtag, Battery
    • Ipad, Reusable water bottle, Coffee mug with hidden compartment for cash, Sunglasses, Sunglasses case, Carabiner (when swimming), Wallet, Driver’s License, Credit Card(s), Quarters, Dollars/$5 dollars/$20 dollars, Ziplocs, Toiletries bag, Seat Bag Folding backpack Change of clothes: Underclothes, Shorts, Bathing suit, Shirt, Folding hat, Rash guard, Cover-up
  • Toiletries bag
    • Toothbrush, Toothbrush cover, Toothpaste, Floss, mouthwash, Deodorant, Travel mirror, Eye drops, Clippers, Tweezers, q-tips, Chapstick, Sunscreen, Hairbrush, First aid, Tylenol, Zzzquil, Face lotion, Hand sanitizer, Bidet
  • Plane Carry On
    • Airtag, GoPro, GoPro bag, GoPro accessories, Laundry bag, Rain jacket, Sandals-walking sandals, Cheap water shoes, bathing suit, rash guard, 9 pairs underwear, cover-up, 2 pairs of socks, 2 bras, 1 pair of leggings, 1 pole outfit, 9 shirts, Packing cubes, suitcase lock, Checked Bag Airtag, Sandcloud towel, Bug spray/bug repellant, Snorkel gear, Snorkel bag, Waterproof phone pouch, PADI scuba certification, Dry bag, dive slate

  • What I didn’t need to bring:
    • Underwear for every day (because of swimsuits!)
    • Shirts for every day (because I wore my swimsuit and cover-up for several outings
    • A fun Luau outfit – if it’s not too early in your trip you can find something nice and local to wear, which we did!
    • Towel to set on the sand – not needed because we just left our stuff in our bags
    • Quarters for parking – we always used ride shares in Waikiki because parking is difficult and then we could both drink!
    • Rain jacket
    • Suitcase locks – we never left our luggage unattended except in our hotel/AirBnB room
    • Dive slate and dive flashlight
    • More than 1 type of sunscreen
  • What I could have used if we brought
    • Towels – we bought some thin souvenir Hawaii ones from ABC which I really like
    • More immunity-boosting vitamins and first aid supplies (Neosporin and after-sun care)
    • Bug spray and anti-itch lotion that works (I got natural wristbands that didn’t work)
  • What I was super glad we brought:
    • Snorkel gear that we liked (I didn’t bring my fins and was able to use the activity fins or pay a little to use fins)
    • Our snorkel gear bag
    • A beach bag that zips closed and fits all our dry beach items
    • A dry waist pouch to keep our phones and cash on us at all times
    • Portable bidet
    • swimwear with zippered pockets