2023 Reading Challenge Books in Review and Recommended Reads

I spent $161.55 on books this year from Half Price Books, The Book Burrow, Bookpeople, Powell’s Online and directly from authors at events and online.

My favorite books I read this year:

  • First Things First by Barbara Delinsky
  • Radar Girls by Sara Ackerman
  • Wool by Hugh Howey
  • Happily Ever Island by Crystal Cestari
  • An Acquired Taste by Kelly Cain
  • A Perfect Vintage by Chelsea Fagan
  • Last Chance Books by Kelsey Rodkey
  • Ramón and Julieta by Alana Albertson
  • Oahu Revealed: The Ultimate Guide to Honolulu, Waikiki & Beyond by Andrew Doughty
  • I’m Glad My Mom Died by McCurdy, Jennette
  • Highly Suspicious and Unfairly Cute by Talia Hibbert
  • Truly Madly Guilty by Liane Moriarty
  • The Wedding Game by Meghan Quinn
  • The Chemistry of Love by Wilson, Sariah
  • Djinn Patrol on the Purple Line by Deepa Anappara
  • The Kiss Quotient by Hoang, Helen

My favorite Indie books that I read this year:

  1. The Beauty of a Spiral: A Novel by Beth Maddaleni
  2. Role Playing by Cathy Yardley
  3. Please Live for Me (Brotherhood Series Book 3) by M.W. McKinley
  4. Broken Perfect Lies: A Bodyguard Romance by Katie Wismer
  5. Demon Whispers (The Survival Chronicles, Book 1) by by N. R. Farrell

Out of the 58 books that I read:

8 Indie Books
4 Nonfiction Books

Other reading stats:

  • I read 4 books for book clubs
  • I read 14 books in anticipation of traveling/set in that location
  • I reviewed 9 books this year for a total of 432 reviews written lifetime
  • In September my review for The Beauty of a Sprial was featured on the homepage of Reedsy Discovery!
  • I won the Pflugerville Library Winter Reading Challenge

Next year I want to:

  • Read 6-12 books about Japan, Japanese history, Japanese culture, etc.
  • Read at least 2 books from President Obama’s Favorite Books of 2023
  • Read at least 2 nonfiction books

The books I read this year:

2022 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2021 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2020 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2019 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2018 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2017 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2016 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2015 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2023: AMC A-List – Watched and Recommended Movies for the Year

Total cost paid for movies watched in 2023 in theatres: $453.74… total value =$1,315.26
Favorite movie(s) of the year: Tetris and American Fiction
Total movies watched in theatres 2023: 71 (34 Dolby, 0 3D, and 0 Imax)
Movies watched in theatres as re-releases: Titanic 25th Anniversary, Return of the Jedi, and The Abyss
Worst movie(s) of the year: Aftersun and Sisu

Favorite Movies of the Year (Letterboxd link here)

  1. Tetris
  2. American Fiction
  3. Barbie
  4. The Hunger Games: The Ballad of Songbirds & Snakes
  5. Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse
  6. Dungeons & Dragons: Honor Among Thieves
  7. Wonka
  8. Next Goal Wins
  9. Nimona
  10. Gran Turismo
  11. Renfield
  12. The Flash
  13. Missing
  14. A Man Called Otto
  15. 80 for Brady
Worst Movies of the Year (Letterboxd link here)
  1. Aftersun
  2. Sisu
  3. Expend4ables
  4. The Last Voyage of the Demeter
  5. Saw X
  6. Five Nights at Freddy’s
  7. Women Talking
  8. Meg 2: The Trench
  9. Silent Night
  10. Aquaman and The Lost Kingdom
  11. Haunted Mansion
  12. My Big Fat Greek Wedding 3
  13. Old Dads
  14. Asteroid City
Streamed movies I recommend that aren’t listed below rated 3.5 stars or higher on Letterboxd:
  • Love at First Sight
  • You are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah
  • Day Shift
  • Red, White & Royal Blue
  • Extraction 2
  • Happiness for Beginners
  • Nimona
  • Flamin’ Hot
  • Murder Mystery 2
  • A Tourist’s Guide to Love
  • Ghosted
  • Tetris
  • Empire of Light
  • Tar
  • Causeway
  • Luckiest Girl Alive
  • Jumping from High Places
  • Triangle of Sadness
  • All Quiet on the Western Front
  • Shotgun Wedding
  • The Sea Beast
  • The Wedding Year
  • The Pale Blue Eye
  • Good Luck
  • Past Lives

Total cost paid for movies watched in 2022 in theatres: $295.88… total value =$1,167.40
Favorite movie of the year: Everything Everywhere All At Once (See top list on Letterboxd here)

Total cost paid for movies watched in 2021 in theatres: $253.55… total value =$1,019.57
Favorite movie of the year: CODA

Total cost paid for movies watched in 2020 in theatres and VOD: $112.7… total value =$327.34
Favorite movie of the year: Soul

Total cost paid for movies watched in 2019 in theatres: $278.15… total value = $1,281.67

Total cost paid for movies watched in 2018 in theatres: $297.42… total value = $839.45

“*” indicates a movie I particularly enjoyed and would recommend.

January: $62.35 value… paid $24.84

  • *A Man Called Otto ($11.99)
  • *M3gan ($12.59)
  • *Puss in Boots: The Last Wish ($12.59)
  • *Missing ($12.59)
  • Women Talking ($12.59)

February: $89.74 value… paid $24.84

  • Knock at the Cabin ($17.09) Dolby
  • *80 for Brady ($8.79)
  • Magic Mike’s Last Dance ($17.09) Dolby
  • Titanic 25 Year Anniversary ($16.09)
  • *Ant-Man and the Wasp: Quantumania ($18.09) Dolby
  • Cocaine Bear ($12.59)

March: $99.53 value… paid $24.84

  • *Operation Fortune: Ruse de guerre ($12.59)
  • Champions ($12.59)
  • *Scream VI ($12.59)
  • 65 ($12.59)
  • Shazam! Fury of the Gods ($18.09) Dolby
  • *John Wick: Chapter 4 ($13.99)
  • *Dungeons & Dragons: Honor Among Thieves ($17.09) Dolby

April: $85.84 value… paid $24.84

  • *The Super Mario Bros. Movie ($17.09) Dolby
  • *Air ($12.99)
  • *Renfield ($13.69)
  • Return of the Jedi ($11.99)
  • Big George Foreman: The Miraculous Story of the Once and Future Heavyweight Champion of the World ($12.99)
  • Sisu ($17.09) Dolby

May: $64.08 value… paid $40.15

  • *Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 3 ($18.09) Dolby
  • *Hypnotic ($12.59)
  • Fast X ($18.09) Dolby
  • *The Little Mermaid ($15.31) Alamo

June: $114.93 value… paid $24.84

  • *Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse ($18.99) Dolby
  • Transformers: Rise of the Beasts ($18.99) Dolby
  • *The Flash ($18.99) Dolby
  • *The Blackening ($12.99)
  • *Elemental ($12.99)
  • *No Hard Feelings ($12.99)
  • Indiana Jones and the Dial of Destiny ($18.99) Dolby

July: $105.93 value… paid $24.84

  • Asteroid City ($12.99)
  • Joy Ride ($12.99)
  • *Mission Impossible – Dead Reckoning Part One ($18.99) Dolby
  • Sound of Freedom ($12.99)
  • *Oppenheimer ($15.99)
  • *Barbie ($13.99)
  • Haunted Mansion ($17.99)

August: $207.21… paid $72.14

  • *Oppenheimer ($18.99) Dolby
  • Meg 2: The Trench ($17.99) Dolby
  • Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles ($17.99) Dolby
  • Cat Video Fest Austin ($12) Flix Brewhouse
  • *Gran Turismo ($17.99) Dolby
  • Talk to Me ($12.99)
  • Retribution ($12.99)
  • *Blue Beetle ($17.99) Dolby
  • Metallica #1 and Metallica #2 ($47.30) Not A-list
  • The Last Voyage of the Demeter ($12.99)
  • The Equalizer 3 ($17.99) Dolby

September: $92.94 value… paid $24.84

  • *Bottoms ($12.99)
  • My Big Fat Greek Wedding 3 ($12.99)
  • A Haunting in Venice ($17.99) Dolby
  • Expend4bles ($17.99) Dolby
  • *The Creator ($17.99) Dolby
  • *Dumb Money ($12.99)

October: $96.80 value… paid $96.80

  • Saw X ($12.99)
  • Killers of the Flower Moon ($14.99) Cinemark
  • Five Nights at Freddy’s ($12.99)
  • Taylor Swift | The Eras Tour ($21.53) Not A-list
  • Priscilla ($15.31) Alamo
  • The Marvels ($18.99) Dolby

November: $116.95 … paid $40.15

  • *Next Goal Wins ($5 – Screen Unseen)
  • *The Marvels ($18.99) Dolby
  • *Napolean ($17.99) Dolby
  • *The Hunger Games: The Ballad of Songbirds & Snakes ($18.99) Dolby
  • Thanksgiving ($9.69)
  • *American Fiction ($5 – Screen Unseen)
  • Wish ($12.99)
  • Silent Night ($12.99)
  • A Disturbance in the Force ($15.31) Alamo

December: $178.96 … paid $55.46

  • *Godzilla Minus One ($14.69) Dolby
  • The Abyss ($18.99) Dolby
  • Die Hard ($14.69) Dolby
  • *Poor Things ($15.31) Alamo
  • The Iron Claw ($18.99) Dolby
  • *Wonka ($17.99) Dolby
  • *Saltburn ($15.31) Alamo
  • Anyone But You ($12.99)
  • Ferrarri ($17.99) Dolby
  • Aquaman and The Lost Kingdom ($18.99) Dolby
  • The Color Purple ($12.99)

Cancún, Mexico trip plan, cost and reviews December 2023

After our amazing 10-day trip to Hawaii this past October where we did all the things and ate all the foods, we were excited for a relaxing yet shorter one-week trip to Cancún over the holiday break. Hawaii may have a culture that is unique but it is still a US territory. As silly and obvious as it sounds, Mexico is a different country with its own language, culture, identity, and customs. Perhaps with luck, preparation, and additional fees/costs, you will have a smooth vacation. That was not our case.

My partner had previously been to Cancún. It was a blast for him and he experienced very few difficulties. Our trip last week was full of obstacles and issues. It was also more expensive than I anticipated.

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Oahu, HI trip plan and reviews October 2023

I meticulously plan 95% of my trips. With a new destination, it’s difficult to know everything in advance, and sometimes unaccounted-for things just happen. However, you can both create a fantastic trip by planning and enjoying the trip for months before it’s actually time to hop on the plane. Roll your eyes all you want, but I love to pack and create lists and info sheets for my trip destinations. The following are tips, tricks, issues, lists, and actual details and reviews from my partner and I’s recent trip to Oahu, Hawaii.

Cost breakdown for 2 people for 10 days in Oahu, HI: $10,607
  • Activities: ~$2962
    • Lei Greeting: $83.03
    • Honolulu Snorkel Tour: $186 +$30 tip
    • Hanauma Bay tickets: $51.18
    • Hanauma Bay tickets: $51.18
    • Pearl Harbor and Circle Island tour: $317.53
    • USS Bowfin Admission tickets: $48
    • 2 Tank scuba dive for open water certified divers: $410.74 +$30 tip
    • Iolani Palace audio tour: $58.22
    • Byodo-Inn temple: $5
    • Diamond Head Hike with parking: $21.53
    • Surf Lesson for 1: $115.18+$25 tip
    • Nutridge Luau with transportation from Waikiki: $418.50
    • Jurassic Park adventure tour: $293.08
    • Secret Island Beach Adventure: $113
    • Ha Breath of life: $140
    • Rainbow reef snorkeling: $52.35
    • Laniwai LomiLomi couples massage: $486.36
    • Lyra class for 1 at Polearity: $26.18
  • Transportation with car rental, and Uber/Lyft within Waikiki and to/from airport in Austin: ~$641
    • Avis rental for 10 days: $387.52
    • Ubers to/from airport: $77.22
    • Gas for rental: $47.39
    • Ubers during trip: $128.84
  • Roundtrip flights: $1378 for 2 people from Austin (includes $60 checked bag x2)
  • Housing: $3600 for 2 people for 10 nights or $360/night average
    • Airbnb for 7 nights: $2180
    • Courtyard Marriott North Shore for 2 nights: $846.88
    • Disney’s Aulani Resort for 1 night: $572.88 (after using $175 gift card)
  • Food, snacks and gifts: ~$2026

Activities and Reviews (reservations include some restaurants) 

Leigreeting.com $83.03 for the Makahiki honeymoon lei greeting

Includes a custom sign, one single-strand orchid lei, and one kukui nut lei
If it’s your first trip to Hawaii this is a nice touch to start your vacation but very much unnecessary if you are going to a Luau or a hotel that will greet you with a lei. We had booked an Airbnb for the first week and a Luau on day 6 of our trip so this was something special that we were willing to include in our vacation budget. I wouldn’t bother doing it again but it was special to be greeted by someone at baggage claim and to get our first taste of Hawaii. The service was easy to book and communicate with after disembarking from our plane.

Duke’s Waikiki $140 for two people including drinks

Making restaurant reservations slipped my mind until the month before our trip and all the dinnertime reservations were claimed for both Duke’s and House without a Key. We were able to snag a 9:15PM on our arrival day. I don’t recommend eating a meal at 9:30PM after traveling all day and adding 5 hours to your day. Food at Duke’s was on the pricier side but they did give us free pie, let us move from a middle table to a table overlooking the balcony and the music (which ended very shortly after we sat down), and there was live music and you can hear the ocean. The food was not my favorite, but we felt special and secluded at our balcony table after we moved. I would recommend if you can get a nice table with a view of the live entertainment or just drinks on the patio. Our favorite was the coconut mojito and we would have gone back to the patio for drinks and music, but probably not the food.

Honolulu snorkel tour

$186 basic package for 2 includes all your snorkel gear and a boat ride out to the snorkel area
https://www.hawaiitours.com/to-do/honolulu-snorkel-tour/


There are so many snorkel tours available and you will see why when you take your boat ride out with up to 35 people in your boat and find several more boats loaded up with passengers trying to see the turtles. There’s enough ocean for everyone and the turtles surface in several areas so we didn’t feel like it was too crowded in that area. Our boat was also half full, as a full boat would have felt crowded and uncomfortable. You have to wear a life jacket when in the water and you won’t mind it since the waves are a little unnerving even if the salt water helps keep you afloat. We brought our own snorkel gear so we probably didn’t get the full value out of this tour. The guides were polite, fun, and cheerful. We saw several turtles and were able to practice with our snorkel gear prior to our scuba dive. I would highly recommend a snorkel tour unless you know someone with a boat or don’t mind staying close to shore.

Pearl Harbor and Circle Island Tour

https://www.hawaiitours.com/to-do/pearl-harbor-oahu-circle-island/ $317.53 for 2 people, includes pickup from Waikiki
Highly recommend this tour, especially earlier on in your trip. Our guide, Jordan, was a local and he was very knowledgeable. He was also a calm driver and a cheerful person. My only comment on this all-day tour was that the stop at the Dole plantation was not long enough to enjoy our dole whips, let alone look in all the nooks and crannies of the store. We had enough time to tour a submarine (extra cost of $48 to tour the USS Bowfin) at Pearl Harbor along with our included tour (with ferryboat ride) of the Arizona Memorial.

Lunch was a stop at the Kahuku Sugar Mill food truck area and we were delighted with our food choice of Da Bald Guy (recommended by our guide as well as from our research beforehand). Our tour ended closer to 3:30PM than the scheduled 5:30PM time.

Hawaiian Diving Adventures

https://hawaiiandiving.com/reef-dives-daily-dive-trips ($410.74 for two certified divers on a 2-tank dive with 1 flippers rental)
There were 5 divers on this excursion, including myself and Jon. One diver had recently bought new equipment, one had not dived since January, one had never dived before, and the two of us were recently certified. There were three dive guides on board and we felt very safe in their hands. The person who had never dived before had his own guide while the other two guides took turns accompanying the rest of us 4 on a little tour of the pip and reef at Kewalo Basin. They provided wetsuits and I was glad to wear them because it was a bit cold and necessary for me to be comfortable. Jon said he wasn’t cold without one. The other lady didn’t have one and said she was too cold to do her second dive. We saw eels, fish, turtles, and a Spanish Dancer. It was cool to get so much closer to the reef than on our snorkel tour. We were even graced by a monk seal saying hi 10 feet from our boat in between our dives. One of the guides said they were very rare and was quite surprised that the little guy came up to the boat. If you’re into scuba diving, I would recommend this company.

House Without a Key $152.88 dinner and drinks for two

We were again not able to make an earlier reservation but snagged a 7:45PM, which was good timing since we only snacked following our scuba adventure. Unfortunately, live music and hula ended at 8 p.m., so we didn’t get to see much of the live entertainment other than a single guitar singer with quiet background music. The Melted Memories 4 cheese pizza with Hawaiian honey was one of the best pizzas I’ve had in a long time and I really enjoyed my coconut martini. If you can snag a reservation closer to 7 p.m., I would highly recommend this spot for dinner, drinks, and entertainment.

Hanauma Bay Snorkeling $50
https://hanaumabaysnorkel.com/

If there is one place you should go on Oahu, it’s Hanauma Bay, but be warned that it won’t be the easiest reservation you make. Tickets sell out within minutes, especially if you need more than 1 ticket. They only have so many tickets per day and release tickets at 7AM. Our first attempt to book tickets on our phones was during our Circle Island Tour and we managed to snag an 11:30AM after the website was slow to load. Using our iPad the next day I was able to get an earlier slot. Because our tickets were near midday and they only had 300 parking spots, we decided to Uber (~$34). There was a line of cars waiting to get into the lot so we made the right decision not to drive but on the way back there were fewer ride shares and we waited 15-20 minutes for our pickup. The snorkeling at Hanauma was amazing because the reef is so close and it’s a nature preserve. There are so many fish and so many huge fish at that. It was a little disconcerting how close the reef was as we snorkeled above it. 11:30AM was hotter than 7:30AM but we felt like we got to see as much wildlife as there was to see so we didn’t go back the following day for our 7:30AM reservation. If you have a rental car, don’t use your phone to book, and try to grab one of those earlier slots so you can get parking!

Iolani Palace audio tour $58.22 for audio devices for two

https://www.iolanipalace.org/visit/tours-admission/guided-tours/
The only reservation that was booked up in advance was the docent tour, but there was daily availability during open hours for the audio tour. I’m not sure you can just walk around the palace without booking an audio tour. There were a lot of museum employees to make sure you stayed in the public areas and to point you to the next stop on your ‘tour,’ which felt a little pushy. Don’t forget to walk across the street to view the King Kamehameha statue.

Fireworks over the ocean

https://www.gohawaii.com/islands/events/hilton-hawaiian-village-fireworks
This is where our 33rd-floor view came in handy since we didn’t have to try to find a viewing spot from the beach. The fireworks lasted all of 3-5 minutes and were about as grand as the nightly fireworks at Disney. Fun but not worth stressing to see.

Byodo-Inn Temple

$5 for the two of us
Parking is minimal and the temple is small – easy quick pit stop. The Koi Pond has so many Koi!

Aloha Stadium Swap Meet $4 total for two people

https://alohastadium.hawaii.gov/aloha-stadium-swap-meet-marketplace/
So much of the same stuff, mostly made outside of Hawaii. If you go here at the beginning of your trip you can probably snag a good deal on a Hawaiian shirt but otherwise, the hype was not worth the trip. I had some of the worst bubble tea I’ve ever had in my life here.

Diamond Head Hike

$21.53 for one car parking and two people admittance with a 4pm-6pm time slot
We chose to arrive between 4pm-4:30PM and had to be out before 6PM. It’s a 30-40 minute hike with uneven smoothed rocks and dirt. There are stairs and a tunnel. It’s not the easiest or the most difficult of hikes but it’s in the sun and if you’re not used to hiking up elevation, this may be tough for you.

The view is completely worth the hike, even if there are 20 other people trying to take the same picture as you.

Surf lesson with Surfer Girl Academy

$115.18 with one other stranger but a private lesson costs more.
I called the day before to ask for a lesson and they told me I could show up to the 10AM lesson and said to pay onsite. This was the day our elevator broke and we had to walk down 33 flights of stairs. The surf lesson was both amazing and scary. We were given a 2-minute safety and tips speech before both of us in the lesson were shown how to get up on the board. We each had one attempt to get up while the instructor held the board steady near the beach. Then we paddled out to the waves. We had to paddle far and it wasn’t my hands/arms that were tired but my shoulders and neck because you have to keep your chin up to stay out of the surf on your way out. I was able to stand up on almost every wave except the one that was too small and the one I tried to do myself. I can imagine it being unsafe and not fun to try to just surf yourself without any prior experience because the one time I tried to judge when to get up myself, I immediately fell hard into the water and swallowed salt water. Highly recommend if you are at all athletically inclined. Surfer Girl Academy was very laid back and I liked the instructor John.

Nutridge Luau $418.50 for two people includes transportation from Waikiki

https://experiencenutridge.com/
75 person max -More personable experience
Bring bug spray and don’t come too hungry – dinner is hours after arrival


I chose this Luau because it was one of two that were ‘local’ and it was supposed to be smaller, more intimate, and with a fantastic view of downtown Honolulu to the Waianae mountain range. In reality, the 75 people were 84 and it felt more crowded than we would have liked. Our seats had a large mango tree blocking any sort of view outside of the property while eating. There were 4 activities and they were not that interesting and could only accommodate a few people at a time. The entertainment and storytelling were the best parts, especially since we lucked out and happened to be seated in the front row. I would definitely have enjoyed this experience more if it was at the beginning of our trip and our seats during dinner and sundown had a better view. The food was okay. They don’t have poi and though it is ‘buffet’ style you don’t get to serve yourself. It is also a catered meal so you miss out on the reveal of the pig from the imu pit. I wanted more leafy greens and they only put a few on my plate and ran out before we could try for ‘seconds.’

IMHO not worth the price. You can drive up and park on the lookout for the same views at sunset or during the day. Choose a different luau or skip this type of experience and opt for a local restaurant like Highway Inn instead.

Jurassic Park Adventure Tour $293.08 for two

https://www.kualoa.com/jurassic-adventure-tour/#


After trying to decide which tour to go with we decided on the Adventure Tour. After visiting the ranch, I think we would have preferred the UTV tour but it sells out the fastest so you have to book that in advance.

The Kualoa Ranch feels like it’s all about making the most money out of tourists, as you don’t even get to see all the Jurassic Park stops during this tour. You have to book the UTV tour to see some more sites and the Hollywood Tour to see the rest.

The ranch has also attempted to preserve the natural aesthetic of the location so even though you are stopping at movie sites, sometimes it’s just a hill with a log or a piece of cement with a roof. You are also made to arrive early to check in which feels like a gimmick to get you to buy something from their gift shop.

Secret Island Beach Adventure at Kualoa Ranch $113 for two

After waiting the required 45 minutes after checking in, we were told that the bus that transports everyone to the canoes that take you to the island was full. Even though some people didn’t check in early, they were let on the bus first. We arrived at the island around 12:30PM after checking in at 11:10AM. The canoe back to the bus that takes you to the ranch leaves at 2:45PM (and the last canoe is at 3PM). We were told that this tour was ~3 hours but in reality, we only had 2.5 hours and all the activities and boats are ‘first come first served’ so there was nothing available for water activities when we arrived (kayaks and SUPS). There were too many people on the island in my opinion but we still had a great time. We took the 3PM canoe back and the line for the bus looked like 3 busloads long but we managed to get onto the first bus. I don’t think I’d book with Kualoa again because of the way they treat their customers’ time, but if you do book this adventure, be prepared to wait.

Polynesian Cultural Center Ha Breath of Life at the Pacific Theatre $140 for two

Our hotel had a deal for tickets and we walked over to the show. The parking lot is huge but it gets full so if you drive come early or be prepared to walk from the far corners. The show is about 75 minutes long and it’s a visual show. Worth the $70/ticket price and walking around their little shopping area beforehand is fun. If you have extra time on your trip, it may be worth checking out the Polynesian Cultural Center when they’re open and adding on this show at the end of your day.

Rainbow Reef Snorkeling at Aulani $25/person

I think it would be amazing to do a Discover Scuba in this little man-made aquarium-reef. There are no waves. There are so many fish. It’s clear and beautiful and there is a viewing area. This reef may seem small but it’s big enough to have a really nice time snorkeling (though the water was colder than the open ocean). This will take less of your day than a snorkeling or scuba tour and it costs less. Even your kids can do it! Highly recommend.

LomiLomi couples massage at Laniwai spa at Aulani $486.36 for two

With the price of a massage, you get access to their spa area for a few hours. The Disney resort was the busiest place we went during our vacation and it was nice to be able to spend time at the spa where access is very limited and there were no kids yelling and running around. The massage was nice but not outstanding. If you have the money and the time to spend, this is a nice activity, but not special to Hawaii per se.

Hotels and Airbnb

Disney’s Aulani Resort

This was the most expensive per-night hotel that we booked and the last night of our trip. Even though we paid for one night, we were able to check in early and use the amenities before our room was assigned. We would have been able to use the resort amenities after checking out but we had a plane to catch. The pools were crowded and the lazy river and slides were busy, but we had fun for a few hours. We also visited one of the lagoons (#1) for swimming and tried snorkeling but it was sandy-bottomed and murky even away from all the swimmers so we stayed near shore. The resort feels humongous but the level of crowds made it immediately recognizable as a Disney property. The hotel staff were accommodating and courteous. If you don’t mind kids running around inside and outside of the hotel and you want to check out Moana, Stitch, Mickey, and friends then I would recommend this hotel if you can afford it (even for 1 night). However, there are several other resort hotels and high-end hotels to check out. After spending a night here, I would rather spend a night at a different high-end hotel next time.

Courtyard Marriott North Shore Oahu

Options for hotels are limited outside of Waikiki and Honolulu and some have a minimum night stay. We wanted to spend time on the other side of the island and this hotel is located between Kualoa Ranch and the North Shore. I wouldn’t have minded spending more time at this hotel since we were not able to take advantage of all their activities and amenities. They were very accommodating and helpful at the front desk. The live music in the evenings felt intimate. There weren’t crowds of people when we were there (unlike the Polynesian Cultural Center shopping and show next door) and it felt like a much more relaxed environment. Highly recommend it, especially since the per night cost is lower than many hotels on Waikiki – but you’re going to need a rental car if you spend time outside of Waikiki.

AirBnB Waikiki

Pricing for a partial or full ocean view at hotels in Waikiki was out of my budget comfort zone. We were able to spend 10 days on Oahu vs. 7 because we opted to spend the majority of our time in an AirBnB that came with a free parking spot. I chose this particular room because of its theming, the view, the location, and the swing chair. The room came with one caveat – only 1 elevator would be working. We would be on the 33rd floor out of 40 floors. After much discussion over price savings and the terrific view, we decided to be on Hawaii time waiting for the elevator, however; the situation with the elevator was worse than we realized. The elevators were not made to be outdoor elevators and they were on the outside of the building, hugging the wall. The AC was constantly dripping onto passengers, the floor, or a towel and it smelled like dirty feet most of the time. Out of our 7 days, one morning the one working elevator was not working at all. If you tried to get on the elevator from any floor but the lobby, it may already be too full for more passengers and you’d have to wait for the next trip. Only the lobby floor would indicate which floor the elevator was on, so you would never know if the elevator was coming or not, causing some mild anxiety. Having a free parking space was amazing since hotels will charge a nightly fee that can get as high as $70 to park a car, but the parking lot curving around the central area of the building was not wide enough for two cars to pass safely and oftentimes people would have cars too large to fit in their spaces or too many vehicles in one space making it difficult to navigate around them.

The elevator situation and the parking situation made us less inclined to want to take a spontaneous trip outside of our condo. The fact that you are a short walk to the beach doesn’t matter as much if it takes you 5-10 minutes to wait for the elevator (if it’s even working) and you get to spend 2-3 long minutes with a terrible smell as it slowly descends. This particular unit was well stocked and there were so many details that made our stay so much better, like a beach bag, snorkel gear, all sorts of sunscreens, binoculars, and beach towels. The AC worked well and kept us cool. Ultimately we wouldn’t book in this building again because of the elevator but finding a room with a view that came with a parking spot that was more budget-friendly than many hotels was very helpful in elevating parts of our vacation without breaking our budget.

Food and restaurants

My favorite drink: Coconut mojito from Duke’s Waikiki or Da Kine latte from Coffee Gallery
My favorite snack: Spam musubi from ABC or fresh passion fruit from the fruit stand


My favorite entrée: Fried poke from Da Bald Guy or salmon and ahi poke bowl from Morning Catch


My favorite dessert: Dole Whip from Kono’s Northshore, the Haupia pie from McDonald’s, or even the tiny haupia square from Highway Inn’s tasting plate

Honorable mentions:

  • The Big Pig Quesadilla from Kono’s Northshore was delicious and stuffed with slow-roasted pork!
  • Poi donut from Liliah Bakery
  • Spicy ahi hand roll from ABC
  • Li hing pineapple from Costco
  • Boneless Kalbi from Da Bald Guy
  • Salmon and fish from Da Bald Guy
  • Melted Memories 4 cheese pizza with Hawaiian honey from House without a Key
  • Lili Coco drink from Highway Inn
  • Loco Moco from Highway Inn
  • Li hing malasada from Leonard’s Bakery
  • Pistachio ice cream from Black Sheep
More food and my hot takes

Acai bowls – overpriced and overhyped.

Poke bowls – so good when it’s fresh! Worth paying more for better quality.

Shave ice – save it for the kids or on a hot day when you need a sugar pick-me-up that will also cool you off.

Malasadas – they didn’t impress me (especially the filled ones). My favorite was the li hing malasada which was noticeably fresher than all the others.

Ube donuts and mochi donuts – my favorite kind of donut!

Poi and other local Hawaiian foods – I didn’t love any of these dishes very much but absolutely loved the haupia square they added to this plate at Highway Inn

Loco moco – quite salty but otherwise delicious. Best shared.

Any drinks with pineapple or coconut flavors are worth trying. The ones with the whipped pineapple or coconut on top were the best

What I would have planned differently now that we’ve taken our trip:

Our time change from Austin to Hawaii was 5 hours and I didn’t quite realize that we wouldn’t be sleeping in all week. We could have planned more of our activities earlier in the day without worrying about being tired in the morning because our bodies were 5 hours ahead!

More time at the Disney resort since we checked out before 8AM and could have taken advantage of the resort that day had we not been on the plane already.

Spending more time outside of Waikiki. Most of the food I wanted to try was in the Waikiki and surrounding area but there were so many more hikes and beaches that we didn’t get to experience because we only budgeted 2 days in the North Shore area and spent most of that time during the day at Kualoa ranch.

Though the view from our AirBnB was spectacular, we were able to snag views from most of our excursions. I don’t think it’s worth it to pay more for a view from your hotel. Save your money and stay at a lower-end hotel in the location that is most convenient for you!

Spend more time outside of Waikiki. We drove through interesting places but didn’t stop because we had all our luggage in the car and it’s not recommended to leave it unattended in the vehicle. We would have liked to enjoy more of the hikes and beaches outside of Waikiki but didn’t have enough time.

Rent a smaller car. We got a midsize car and it would have made driving and parking easier if we had booked a compact car.

Choose a different Luau and spend more time researching what Luau to book. We weren’t overly pleased with Nutridge Luau but we don’t have anything to compare it to, so perhaps any Luau isn’t worth the price. We should have also booked the luau for earlier in the trip because it felt touristy and cheesy and that would have been better at the beginning of our trip.

Final thoughts. Planning a trip makes for a better trip. Planning a trip allows you to experience the trip longer than the actual vacation. Not every detail will be perfect but with some Aloha spirit, you can have an amazing time.

Trip planning checklist:
  1. Watch videos to get a sense of location, pricing, food, activities, etc.
  2. Decide Island
  3. Decide Dates
  4. Decide Budget
  5. Decide Activities
  6. Book Flights
  7. Book hotels/Airbnb
  8. Check back in with activities – links to actual purchase sites and all questions to ask – final budget
  9. Create Packing list
  10. Book Rental car
  11. Book activities that require reservations: scuba, Jurassic Park adventure Tour, Nutridge Luau w/ transport, Pearl Harbor and Circle Island tour, Turtle canyon snorkel, Iolani Palace Tour, Secret island beach adventure or snorkeling North Shore, Lei greeting
  12. Book restaurant reservations if applicable: Duke’s Waikiki, House Without a Key, anything on Disney property
  13. Travel Purchases: $1 and $5s for parking and tips
  14. Decide must eats and book restaurant reservations
  15. Learn Lei etiquette, surf etiquette, and Hawaiian phrases
  16. Verify travel restrictions; airport info at destination; refresh on scams/issues to avoid
  17. Pack; charge electronics; download music and movies for plane flight; arrange transportation to the airport, download apps, and login

Helpful apps you can use while on your trip:

Tips I noted before our trip:
  • Tip* Avoid the sun between 11A.M. and 2 P.M.
  • Tip* Surf report call 808-973-4383
  • Tip* shark attacks occur in murky water at dawn or dusk and if you see man of war on the beaches don’t go in the water. 9-10 days after the full moon the box jellyfish come ashore and don’t touch!
  • Tip* Avoid driving into Honolulu 7-8:30AM and 3-7PM on weekdays and into Honolulu after 7PM on weekends
  • Tip* Sugarloaf Pineapples are the best

Movies we watched or wanted to watch that were set/filmed in Oahu or Hawaii
Movie Date Location notes
Jurassic Park 1993 Manawaiopuna Falls, Hanapepe Valley, Kauai Island (chopter arrival), Kualoa Ranch, Kamehameha Hwy, Kaneohe, Oahu Island, Waikoko Forest, Kauai Island (Jurassic Park gate), Allerton Garden, National Tropical Botanical Garden, Kauai Island (discover eggs)
The Lost World: Jurassic Park 1997 LA and Kauai
Jurassic Park III 2001
Pearl Harbor 2001 Ford Island, Pearl Harbor, USS Arizona Memorial, Pearl Harbor, Byodo-In Temple – 47-200 Kahekili Hwy
Lilo & Stitch 2002 Kauai
Blue Crush 2002 Marriott’s Ko Olina Beach Club Oahu, Hawaii Film Studio
50 First Dates 2004 Kaneohe Bay, Sea Life Park, Waimanalo, Halona Blowhole, Hanauma Bay, Dillingham Ranch, Waialua, Kualoa Ranch, Kaʻaʻawa Valley, He’eia Kea Boat Harbor, Oahu, Hawaii
Forgetting Sarah Marshall 2008 Honolulu, Laie point, oahu, Turtle Bay Resort
Princess Kaiulani 2009 Iolani Palace
Soul Surfer 2011 Oahu, Kauai, Hawaii
The Descendants 2011 3849 Old Pali Road, Honolulu, 155 Dowsett Avenue, Honolulu, St. Francis Medical Center, 2933 Kalakaua Avenue, 4328 Papu Circle, Honolulu, 4420 Aukai Avenue, Honolulu, 55-190 Kamehameha Hwy, Laie, Waikiki,
Jurassic World 2015 Makai Research Pier, Oahu Island (where the protagonists arrive)
Point Break 2015 Surf scenes at Waimea Bay Beach Park
Aloha 2015 Honolulu, Oahu, Hawaii, The Breakers Hotel – Waikiki
Moana 2016
Mike and Dave Need Wedding Dates 2016 Turtle Bay Resort, Kualoa Ranch, Kahuku, Kamehameha Highway, Waimea Bay, Honolulu, Laie
Snatched 2017 Honolulu, Waianae
Jurassic World Fallen kingdom 2018 Halona Beach, Oahu Island (dinosaur chase beach refuge)
The Wrong Missy 2020 The Four Seasons in Ko Olina
Finding ’Ohana 2021 Honolulu, Kaneohe, Kualoa Ranch, Leonard’s Bakery
Jurassic world dominion 2022

Books I read (I didn’t finish reading through my list and didn’t get to Honolulu or Shark Dialogues but I read all the other books)
Books Description
Oahu Revealed Guidebook on all things Oahu.
The Descendants – Kaui Hart Hemmings A dysfunctional family that has to pull itself together as their wife/mother lies dying in the hospital.
Juniors by Kaui Hart Hemmings Seventeen-year-old Lea Lane must navigate a complex web of friendships and relationships after she and her mother move into the guest cottage of the fabulously wealthy West family in Honolulu.
Summer Bird Blue – Bowman, Akemi Rumi goes to live with her aunt in Hawaii, in order to give her mom the space and time she needs to process the death of Rumi’s younger sister, Lea.
Sharks in the Time of Saviors by Kawai Strong Washburn When supernatural events revisit the Flores family in Hawaii – with tragic consequences – they are all forced to reckon with the bonds of family, the meaning of heritage, and the cost of survival.
Calvin Coconut: Hero of Hawaii by Graham Salisbury Hawaii boy Calvin Coconut has come up with the best idea ever for his sister Darci’s birthday party. But a huge tropical storm hits the islands and threatens everything. It rains and rains. And rains.
Paddling My Own Canoe by Audrey Sutherland This is the story of fulfilling her dream, of planning then implementing, of launching and advancing, of retreating and reconnoitering, of challenge and success exploring Molokai.
Radar Girls by Sarah Ackerman The story of new recruits and unsung heroes. After the attack on Pearl Harbor, Daisy, a gifted horse trainer, enlists in a top-secret program that recruits women to replace men who have joined the war.
Under the Blood-Red Sun by Graham Salisbury (1994) Tomikazu Nakaji’s biggest concerns are baseball, homework, and a local bully until life with his immigrant Japanese family in Hawaii changes drastically after the Pearl Harbor bombing 12/1941.
To Wake the Giant by Jeff Shaara An exciting war story that will provide a better understanding of Pearl Harbor
Honolulu by Brennert, Alan Instead of the prosperous young husband and the chance at an education she has been promised, Jin is quickly married off to a poor, embittered laborer who takes his disappointments out on his new wife, forcing her to make her own way in a strange land.
Shark Dialogues by Kiana Davenport An epic saga of seven generations as a Hawaiian woman gathers her four granddaughters together in an erotic tale of villains and dreamers, queens and revolutionaries, lepers and healers
Between the Deep Blue Sea and Me by Lurline Wailana McGregor Moana’s struggles to understand her ancestral responsibilities, mend relationships, and find her identity as a Hawaiian in today’s world.
Kaiulani: The People’s Princess, Hawaii, 1889 by Ellen Emerson White After being forcibly annexed by the U.S., the Hawaiian people turned to the young Princess Kaiulani in the hopes that their toppled monarchy could be restored.
And my packing list for the 10-night trip:

  • Plane outfit Outgoing and Plane outfit Returning
    • Bright yellow water shoes, Socks, Comfy pants, Comfy shirt, Sweater, underclothes
  • Seat Bag Folding backpackSeat Bag Folding backpack
    • Travel Pouch for electronics, Ipad charger, Phone, Phone charger brick (2), Phone charger cord (2), Carplay cord, Watch charger, Watch, Airpods, Airtag, Battery
    • Ipad, Reusable water bottle, Coffee mug with hidden compartment for cash, Sunglasses, Sunglasses case, Carabiner (when swimming), Wallet, Driver’s License, Credit Card(s), Quarters, Dollars/$5 dollars/$20 dollars, Ziplocs, Toiletries bag, Seat Bag Folding backpack Change of clothes: Underclothes, Shorts, Bathing suit, Shirt, Folding hat, Rash guard, Cover-up
  • Toiletries bag
    • Toothbrush, Toothbrush cover, Toothpaste, Floss, mouthwash, Deodorant, Travel mirror, Eye drops, Clippers, Tweezers, q-tips, Chapstick, Sunscreen, Hairbrush, First aid, Tylenol, Zzzquil, Face lotion, Hand sanitizer, Bidet
  • Plane Carry On
    • Airtag, GoPro, GoPro bag, GoPro accessories, Laundry bag, Rain jacket, Sandals-walking sandals, Cheap water shoes, bathing suit, rash guard, 9 pairs underwear, cover-up, 2 pairs of socks, 2 bras, 1 pair of leggings, 1 pole outfit, 9 shirts, Packing cubes, suitcase lock, Checked Bag Airtag, Sandcloud towel, Bug spray/bug repellant, Snorkel gear, Snorkel bag, Waterproof phone pouch, PADI scuba certification, Dry bag, dive slate

  • What I didn’t need to bring:
    • Underwear for every day (because of swimsuits!)
    • Shirts for every day (because I wore my swimsuit and cover-up for several outings
    • A fun Luau outfit – if it’s not too early in your trip you can find something nice and local to wear, which we did!
    • Towel to set on the sand – not needed because we just left our stuff in our bags
    • Quarters for parking – we always used ride shares in Waikiki because parking is difficult and then we could both drink!
    • Rain jacket
    • Suitcase locks – we never left our luggage unattended except in our hotel/AirBnB room
    • Dive slate and dive flashlight
    • More than 1 type of sunscreen
  • What I could have used if we brought
    • Towels – we bought some thin souvenir Hawaii ones from ABC which I really like
    • More immunity-boosting vitamins and first aid supplies (Neosporin and after-sun care)
    • Bug spray and anti-itch lotion that works (I got natural wristbands that didn’t work)
  • What I was super glad we brought:
    • Snorkel gear that we liked (I didn’t bring my fins and was able to use the activity fins or pay a little to use fins)
    • Our snorkel gear bag
    • A beach bag that zips closed and fits all our dry beach items
    • A dry waist pouch to keep our phones and cash on us at all times
    • Portable bidet
    • swimwear with zippered pockets

Austin, TX single day trip plan

This isn’t your average Texas Capital and visitor center excursion. This is a plan for a little bit of this and a little bit of that, including indoor stops and outdoor stops. Spend two minutes snagging a photo or a few hours exploring each of these stops or do something else entirely. This is just a guide for my ideal single-day adventure tour in Austin. If you’re here in the summer – be sure to plan your outdoor stops early in the day before the sun becomes excruciating. If you’re here in the winter make sure you plan for the shorter daylight! Watch out for events in the downtown area that could cause traffic mayhem for you. This tour is best taken with a driver who can circle the block if there isn’t parking available.

First stop: Summer Moon Coffee

For the coffee lovers with a sweet tooth.

Recommendation: 1/2 winter moon latte with light ice.

Why this and not that: The moon milk is fantastic, coffee beans are roasted locally in Austin, and they are a Texas-based franchise.

 

Second stop: Breakfast tacos or kolaches

Kolaches can be sweet or savory but Austin is the “birthplace of the phrase breakfast taco” according to Eater Austin so take your pick. There are a number of well known and highly rated locations for both options.

Recommendation: Save room for lunch!

Third stop: Pease Park Treehouse and shenanigans (1100 Kingsbury St, Austin, TX 78703)

An urban park with trails, picnic spots, a playground, basketball, volleyball and the cool treehouse open to the public

Recommendation: Go before it gets too hot or the 18 parking spots and limited street parking are taken.

Why this and not that: The large net on the second story makes this treehouse wonderfully interactive and peaseful.

Fourth stop: World’s Largest Longhorn statue (411 W 23rd St, Austin, TX 78705)

This fiberglass Texas statue is 12 feet tall and includes a viewing porch with stairs.

Recommendation: Stop for a quick picture while your driver circles the block as the pavement surrounding this cow was not accessible to cars when we visited.

Why this and not that: If ‘biggest’ of any type interests you, why not? It’s a roadside attraction, that’s all.

Fifth stop: Covert Park at Mount Bonnell (3800 Mt Bonnell Rd, Austin, TX 78731)

Put on your climbing shoes and ascend 102 stairs to reach Austin’s highest point at 781 feet. The lookout will be worth the effort!

Recommendation: Take it slow if you need to. This is a short hike with free views, free parking, and free exercise.

Why this and not that: A beautiful view of the city but you’ll have to skip it if you’re looking for a paved and accessible view. Stairs required.

 

Sixth stop: Interstellar BBQ (12233 Ranch Rd 620 N suite 105, Austin, TX 78750)

If you have to wait for BBQ – this one is the best value for your time.

Recommendation: Put on your patient shoes as the line moves slowly but it’s in the shade and one of the lovely employees will offer you a cold drink midway through. You can get a little bit of most everything as you pay by the pound as if you’re at the deli counter of a grocery store. Don’t skip the peach tea glazed pork belly and the mac & gouda (you can skip the free beans though). Don’t come too late because BBQ in Austin is only available until sold out.

Why this and not that: I’m sure you have your favorite local BBQ spot but of the essential BBQ restaurants in Austin that I’ve been to this one had my favorite tasting meats and sides. Unless you want to order the minimum 5 lbs at popular spots like Franklin’s, you’ll be stuck in that queue over there for hours. I’ve been to Interstellar BBQ 3 times around 12PM on both weekdays and weekends and the wait time was between 30-60 minutes.

Seventh stop: The Museum of Illusions (11010 Domain Dr #100, Austin, TX 78758)

Time to work off that post-lunch meal with an indoor exploration of wonder and mildly headache-inducing illusions.

Recommendation: reserve your time slot to guarantee admission or wing it (there’s always the outdoor mall at the Domain if you want to skip this museum). Watch out for kids running around (because they will be) and take your time to make the experience last because a walkthrough could be as quick as 30 minutes.

Why this and not that: It’s different, it’s indoors, it has air-conditioning, your kids will love it, and you’ll get some exciting photos that might boggle your mind.

Eighth stop: the Wall of Welcome (7100 Woodrow Ave, Austin, TX 78757)

Head back South towards the Capital for a few quick pit stops that include this neighborhood gem.

Recommendation: Wear your hat as you’ll be in the full sun if you’re following this itinerary. There are so many details that a 5-10 minute stop won’t do this one justice but it will leave a smile on your face.

Why this and not that: Easy parking in a quiet neighborhood where you won’t have to shove elbows to view this 120-foot-long community mosaic.

Ninth stop: Atown Store (5502 Burnet Rd, Austin, TX 78756)

Grab a cold drink and find a nifty souvenir here.

Why this and not that: You can find both locally made artwork and novelties here. It is surprisingly huge inside.

Tenth stop: Happy Lemon (6406 N Interstate Hwy 35 suite 1301, Austin, TX 78752)

Bubble tea store.

Recommendation: My favorite and go-to drink is Boba milk tea with puff cream, 50%/75% sugar, and light ice. Skip the bubble waffle unless you’re hungry because the bubble tea is filling.

Why this and not that: There are a surprising amount of bubble tea shops in the Austin area but Happy Lemon is my absolute favorite.

Eleventh stop: The Cloverleaf Gnomes (1613 Cloverleaf Dr, Austin, TX 78723)

HOA nightmare or fun neighborhood attraction? You decide.

Recommendation: Play I Spy while here.

Twelfth stop: Before I Die Wall (206 E Elizabeth St, Austin, TX 78704)

Private residence with a chalkboard wall full of bucket list items.

Recommendation: don’t be rude or inappropriate.

Why this and not that: This street feels quite private but the chalkboard wall is open and inviting with a basket full of chalk and a towel to wipe away answers like “poop.”

Thirteenth stop: Purr-fecto Cat Lounge (2300 S Lamar Blvd unit 104, Austin, TX 78704)

Austin’s only cat lounge where you can adopt the kittens/cats.

Recommendation: Make a reservation as they only have so many slots and they might sell out.

Why this and not that: After two outdoor spots, being in this air-conditioned open room will feel like paradise. Surprisingly, I didn’t smell litterbox or disinfectant at all. It is bright, well lit, and the cats were very friendly.

 

Fourteenth stop: BookPeople (603 N Lamar Blvd, Austin, TX 78703)

Texas’ largest independent bookstore.

Recommendation: Check out their events page for cool events and maybe even catch a book club meeting.

Why this and not that: Downtown and they have parking! This bookstore is large, inviting, and has so many books!

Fifteenth stop: Austin bats

Arguably the most popular visitor attraction is when the largest urban bat colony in North America emerges from the Congress Bridge at dusk.

Recommendation: Pick your viewing location and plan your time accordingly. See them from the Pfluger Bridge, the shore, or even the P6 Bare at the LINE hotel rooftop bar.

Last stop: Music on East Sixth Street

Entertainment and Eating that is a staple in Austin’s history.

Recommendation: Darwin’s Pub & Piano Bar.

Open Water Scuba Certification Challenge

Dread.

Anxiety.

I feel a slow burn of discomfort rising inside and I rip off the VR headset. The underwater blue whale VR experience is meant to fill you with wonder. Without leaving the comfort of your home, you can experience the dazzling depths of the ocean and see this majestic creature up close. Except, for me, I am concentrating on the dark and slightly murky view and this 360 perspective fills me with dread. What is it that I can’t see? What is waiting just beyond my field of view?

I have never been a great swimmer. I know how to float, doggy paddle, splash, and have fun on the surface. I never learned how to really swim efficient laps. Even in my kiddie swim classes, I wasn’t comfortable putting my face underwater. I pinch my nose shut when I swim underwater. If I don’t hold my nose closed, I rush to expel imaginary water from my nose in a whoosh of air that lasts a few seconds before I have to surface. This was never a problem for me growing up. I could spend hours in the pool with my siblings without needing to put my face underwater for longer than a few seconds or I would just hold my nose shut.

In through the nose and out through the mouth. I only breathe this way for meditative/calming purposes or when exercising. I am a constant, consistent, and unconscious nose breather. I have trouble sleeping when I’m congested and have to breathe through my mouth. I’ve lived through Pneumonia, bronchitis, and exercise-induced asthma. There is an edge of anxiety when I can’t get enough oxygen through my nose. The wildest panic I have ever experienced is when I took a breath but it wasn’t enough. A gasp without oxygen is a deep terror you feel instantly and I have experienced this feeling before.

Here I am:
• Over thirty
• Swims with one hand because the other is holding my nose shut
• Have had asthma and a panic attack when I couldn’t get enough oxygen when I breathed
• Is mildly scared of open water
• A constant nose breather

I signed up for open-water scuba certification.

Some of the skills required to pass:
• Regulator removal and recovery
• Partially flooded mask
• Fully flooded mask
• Mask removal and replacement underwater
• Air depletion and signal
• No mask swim

The number one rule of scuba diving is to breathe continuously and never hold your breath!

So I didn’t just sign up for open water scuba certification out of the blue. I’ve actually tried scuba diving before. It didn’t go so well. I was just getting over bronchitis and all the smoking from Europeans on vacation (I was in the Gran Canary Islands) was setting off deep and terrible coughing attacks that would end in me gasping for air. The best hour of my life on that trip was breathing in from the scuba diving tank of oxygen. Sweet, sweet, clean air! But as soon as I went underwater my anxiety became too much. My friend was ecstatically diving underwater while I was doggy paddling with full scuba gear on the surface.

Before signing up for open water scuba certification, my partner and I signed up for a “Discover Scuba” which is like an intro to scuba diving. During this single tank pool dive class I was unable to do a mask clearing and was too afraid to go to the ‘deep’ end (14 ft.) I was 50% confident in my ability to continue learning to scuba dive. I have never been this uncertain in my life yet still signed up for the open water certification course (2 consecutive weekends with the first Saturday and Sunday taking place in the dive shop pool and the second Saturday and Sunday taking place at our local Windy Point Park in Texas). 

I took a continuing education engineering class where I barely passed the final. I didn’t understand all the material since I don’t have an engineering background and not all the material was practical for what I do day-to-day. I either did or did not understand the material. In my Advanced Placement (AP) Calculus class, I either knew or did not know how to answer the questions. I either can or can’t do something physically (like jump a certain height or reach a certain height). I’ve never tried to do something that was almost beyond difficult for me mentally. Practice will get you far, but if something is hard mentally, it’s beyond difficult. I have trouble jumping into the water because I don’t like to be cold. I put off calling customer service because it’s uncomfortable. I’ll pick green onions out of my food because I just don’t want to eat them. It’s easier for me to put up with physical pain than to subject myself to discomfort or something that is mentally tough.

Continuously breathing underwater was – not shockingly – very difficult for me. And not just because being underwater and breathing underwater is counterintuitive to living. Breathing in and out of my mouth was surprisingly difficult for me. At one point the instructor told me that I would just have to focus on breathing in and out of my mouth. There was no alternative. You’re underwater. You have to breathe through your regulator. Period.

Will do. Can do. Done.

I did sign up for an adult swimming lesson at the local community pool. It was just me in the pool that morning with a young lady who was probably a bit confused that I wanted a lesson on how to not breathe water in my nose when underwater. For people who have practiced swimming enough to intuitively breathe out (and not in) through their noses, teaching this skill may seem laughable. She was patient. I really, really didn’t want to practice. Stick my head underwater, hold my breath, breathe out my nose. So far so good. Hold my breath. Breathing out my nose that second time wasn’t working. I kept inhaling at least a little bit from my nose before exhaling that second time. A little water went up my nose. It wasn’t the worst feeling in the world. I didn’t feel like I was drowning. I was more frustrated than anxious.

Going into the open water certification class in the pool, I knew that it was going to be okay if I swallowed a little water or inhaled a little water in my nose. So I was prepared to try the mask flooding and removal skills.

The first time didn’t go well. I must have inhaled because the next moment I was on the surface and my mask was gone. I had panicked and surfaced and thrown my mask off my head. The instructor surfaced and we had a conversation about what went wrong. I was trembling, adrenaline making me shake. Could I handle this skill?

I tried again. Still breathing in through my nose. Less panicked this time. I surfaced to clear the mask of the water. It was frustrating that I was the only one of the 4 students having trouble. Am I too old and set in my way to learn something new? Would I have to just live with inhaling water in order to pass this skill check? What would happen when I was deeper than 4 feet underwater? All of the skills we were learning and had to pass were going to keep us safe while scuba diving. There is no fake it til you make it. You either do or don’t. 

Then the instructor gave me an alternative way of clearing my mask which I was able to apply to all mask skills (clearing, flooding, and removing and putting it back on). He said I could pinch my nose shut to help with the skill. I could take my time. I was still breathing through the regulator. I could do it.

I did it!

High fives all around.

With the safety of knowing I could block myself from breathing in through my nose, I could do all the mask skills. They still made me anxious. How would I do when we were 10 ft underwater? 30 ft underwater? It was such a relief to know that I could block my nose if I needed to.

Breathe in through the regulator.
Gently breathe out through the nose as I remove the mask and close my eyes.
Pinch my nose shut.
Stay calm.
Breathe in through the regulator.
Breathe out through the regulator.
Reposition the mask on my forehead.
Pull the strap over my head.
Breathe in.
Stay calm.
Breathe out.
Breathe in.
Stay calm.
Breathe out gently through my nose as I quickly slip the mask into position over my face.
Pinch my nose shut.
Stay calm.
The fully flooded mask is now in place.
Breathe in.
Breathe out.
Breathe in.
Gently blow out through my nose, looking down, and pushing on the top part of the mask to gently remove the water.
Pinch my nose.
Open my eyes to check my progress. 
Breathe in.
Breathe out.
Partially flooded mask.
Breathe in.
Clear the mask of the remaining water.
Done.
Continue to breathe.
Whew.
Moving on.

To the lake dives!
Again with the skills but this time with 0-5 ft. visibility in the open water.
Focus on continuously breathing, remaining calm, and preparing to complete the same skills from the pool but deeper and with less visibility.

I did it before. I can do it again.

We get into the lake. I’m shoved by waves. There were no waves in the pool. I’m struggling to find my calm. We start with a snorkel to regulator switching swim out to a designated float. My mask keeps getting water in it. I’m opening my mouth too wide to switch between the two because of course everything is made for bigger faces and larger bodies. The gloves don’t fit. My BCD (Buoyancy Control Device) is large. I’m pushed over from the weights in the front and the air in the back to keep me afloat. Have to learn how to float with all the moving water. Have to learn not to clench the regulator and to just slip it into my mouth without moving my face too much. Have to remain calm.

It’s so hard.

I’m not ready to dive.

When I perform on stage I prefer to go earlier than later in the program so that my nerves don’t get as worked up.

I’m more ready to dive now than later. If I keep waiting, I’ll be psyched out.

We dive. I can’t see. Visibility is low. I’m clenching the guide rope, equalizing with every breath, working to remain calm and breathe slowly and continuously. We’re at the platform underwater. I hold tight to the guide pipe and await instruction. I manage to make it through the skills and we surface and head back to our picnic table for debriefing, rest, snacks, and water, as well as to talk through the next and final dive of the day. 

We go back in and I feel the tiniest bit more confident. After we descend I end up between my partner and another student on the platform, holding onto the pipe in front of me as I work to get my hover/buoyancy under control. I feel something push down on my tank. I look left. The sight of my partner calms me. He does not seem bothered. That makes me feel better. There are 3 instructors for us 4 students. That makes me feel better. I look to my right. The other student is mostly still by my side. I look forward to the instructor. It’s okay. I can do this. I’m surrounded by help if I need it.

Something pushes down on my tank again.

I’m trapped.

If I move too far I won’t be able to see the instructors and they won’t be able to see me.

I need to get out.

I signal ‘problem’.

I signal ‘up’.

He tells me to wait.

Trying to hold in the anxiety.

Why won’t he let me surface?

I signal ‘problem’ and ‘up’ again.

He tells me to wait and then indicates I should move forward. I am pulled by another instructor back to the guiding rope.

Up? I ask again.

We surface slowly and calmly. I already feel better now that I’m not stuck in between two other students, feeling trapped, and not able to see.

We discuss what happened, what I felt, and how we’re going to go back down.

It doesn’t feel like an option to quit.

When I’m ready to go back down we will.

Logical.

Next step.

I am and am not ready but what am I waiting for?

My partner likes to watch UFC and when they get illegally poked in the eye or hit in the groin, they have time to recover and they never seem to take the full allotted time before jumping back in the fight. Sometimes five-minute rounds gas out the competitors. Every minute underwater is taxing for me. 

We’re a few minutes on the surface. I don’t use my full allotted time. We go back down. I make it through the skills and we go on a ‘tour.’ I manage to spot a neatly placed fake skeleton inside part of a sailboat. Visibility is so poor that the tour feels like slow torture through a claustrophobic underwater prison. My jaw is tired from clenching the regulator so tight. I’m afraid of moving my head too much and letting water into my mask. I don’t want to have to clear it. 

At least my partner is beside me. I’m holding onto his BCD or his hand and keeping my sight set on the instructor leading us forward. Soon it will end. The three-minute safety stop is torturous but also like a slow release inside because this is our last few minutes before we will be topside. 

Soon I can go back to the comfort of nose breathing. 

And then we’re out and climbing the steep steps. I’m exhausted in so many ways but also proud of going back, descending, keeping calm, and breathing continuously. One more day to go and I’ll have overcome this challenge. My reward – a fun and full-of-visibility dive on our vacation to Oahu later this fall.  

Thanks to Austin Dive Center and our instructor Carl Balzen who gave me a way to handle myself and the required skills underwater. His belief and assumption that I was going to go back in was the push I needed to keep breathing (through my mouth of course) and go back underwater, even with limited to near zero feet of visibility. And we all passed! Four new open-water certified scuba divers!

2022 Net Worth and Monthly Spending Update

Here are some charts I made to compare my monthly spending over 2022, 2021, 2020, 2019, and 2018. The purpose of these charts is to show changes in spending over time (across different categories).

Here are a few more fun numbers:

  1. I increased my spending 39% from 2021 to 2022, while increasing my income 22% (I increased my spending 12% from 2020 to 2021 while increasing my income 3.5% and I increased my spending 4% from 2019 to 2020 while increasing my income 3%)
  2. The house I bought in 2021 increased in value 37% since last year
  3. My credit score increased and then decreased when I moved so it’s roughly the same number as where it was at the beginning of last year
  4. Notable increases in spending from 2021 to 2022 include:
    1. Household/Clothing – 603% increase due to moving twice and not owning the furniture, electronics, household goods etc. for our own place
    2. Travel – 345% increase due to several once-in-a-lifetime trips including a week at Disney and the Starcruiser hotel and a trip to Turkey
    3. Entertainment – 182% increase due to buying tickets to more expensive events like seeing Kevin Hart perform
    4. Bills housing/utilities – 59% increase due to moving into our own place and not splitting rent costs with another person
    5. Bills phone – 15% increase by moving to a higher plan on T-mobile in order to maximize the purchase of two iPhones this year
    6. Misc – 225% increase
  5. Notable decreases in spending from 2021 to 2022 include:
    1. Health- 56% decrease from not re-upping on some vitamins I had been purchasing in the past and sticking with the one that makes the most difference in my gut health. I only went to a doctor one time and an eye doctor one time so no large medical bills
    2. Fitness – 16% decrease from using gift cards to purchase classes and using my Ambassador funds from working at one of the studios
    3. Gifts – 80% decrease because of how I calculate and what I determine to be a gift.
    4. Groceries – 18% decrease
    5. Transportation – 9% decrease due to lower car maintenance costs in 2022 (my partner and I have one car and share expenses)
  6. I did not meet my LLC goal of earning $5,000, but was able to earn just over $4000 for the year
  7. I still have $10,000 in my emergency fund but since my bills have increased, if I need to use that to live on it won’t go as far

The next  charts show my net worth split categories:

16% increase in my assets from 2021 to 2022
76% increase in my assets from 2020 to 2021
53% increase in my assets from 2019 to 2020

2021 Asset breakdown

Where Was Rachel in 2022 – A Blog Post in Pictures and Captions

January

Built a custom closet shelving unit with my housemate Lorri

Visited the Space Needle for the first time since the floor was redone

Dined at the Loupe Lounge (revolving restaurant at the top of the Space Needle) for the first time since I was a toddler.

Dad got a jackfruit to try! I loved it.

February

Moved into a new apartment in Bellevue – our first place with just the two of us

I Ate vegan for a week 

Walked a neighbor’s Corgi – a dream come true!

Painted and gave away some more rocks

March

Volunteered as a pole pixy at Pole Sport Org’s competition

Completed a few puzzles

Started playing Wordles and nailed this guess-in-one for Spanish

Celebrated our 4th meet-anniversary at Din Tai Fung

April

Jon won company tickets to the Pokemon box to see Monster Trucks

Leveled up in Pokemon Go

My credit score bumped over 800

Jon took me out during one of his flight lessons

Jon’s work company rented the Woodland Park Zoo for their Spring Festival

May

We won May the Fourth Trivia and some pretty neat prizes!

We visited family and my house in FL

We booked The Chandrila Line Starcruiser Hotel at Disney

I made my own lightsaber

We spent the week going to all the Disney World parks and the Starcruiser Hotel.

June

I volunteered at the inaugural Seattle Donut Fest

I volunteered for the 10th time at Maple Valley Days

Divine Movement had a party for Ambassadors and Instructors at the skating rink

July

We watched fireworks from Jon’s office building in downtown Bellevue

I set up my pole in the park several times and invited friends to join

Joined the Pokemon Go Fest in downtown Seattle – guess which team we’re on

Had to walk my bike .25 with a flat up and off the bridge after using a fork to get the tube out of the gear mechanism (now I have a tool bag)

August

Watched and sat for a lot of local cats

Made my own Apprentice

Surprised Jon with a day at the races

Sought out new cuisines (Pani Puri) after watching Laal Singh Chaddha

Grew one cucumber from a pot on our porch with no sun

Went to the yearly Pokemon Party

September

Met up at the Bellevue Botanical Gardens with a college friend who moved locally

Tried out straps for the first time at Emerald City Trapeze

Worked on Duo Lyra with my friend Caitlin at Ascendance

Did some cat yoga at Meowtropolitan

House sat in Seattle for a cute little puppers

Performed on Lyra for the first time (as a cat)

October

Went to Turkey for the first time

Went to a traditional Hamam for the first time

Swam at a rooftop bar

Rode in a hot air balloon for the first time

Leveled up again in Pokemon Go

Went paragliding for the first time

Went to a soccer game in Istanbul

Didn’t win anything at the Kirkland car bingo

Took alatte art class for the second year in a row

November

Tried out flying trapeze for the first time (and managed a hand-to-hand catch)

Moved to Austin, TX

Ate BBQ for Thanksgiving

December

Spent a weekend getaway in Seattle for dim sum and to see Kevin Hart

Went to Jon’s Holiday party at Apple

Found several new studios near Austin for dance classes

Went to a Star Wars party at a local pub with our Grogus and won the costume contest

Wore my Oura ring all year

Tried out some new aerial classes – like sling, bungee, wall harness, and trampoline

Continued to score some impressive discounts on food with an app called Too Good to Go

House sat for a cuddly cat over Christmas

Happy New Year!

2022 Reading Challenge Books in Review and Recommended Reads

I spent $5.48 on kindle books this year; $13.20 at Barnes and Noble; $35.91 for books from Bookshop; $103.90 at the Neverending Bookshop; $98.95 at Brick & Mortar for a total of $257.44 on books!

My favorite books I read this year:

  • The Matzah Ball by Jean Meltzer
  • A Cat Cafe Christmas by Codi Gary
  • Firekeeper’s Daughter by Angeline Boulley
  • Hook, Line, and Sinker (Bellinger Sisters, #2) by Tessa Bailey
  • It Happened One Summer (Bellinger Sisters, #1) by Tessa Bailey
  • Written in the Stars (Written in the Stars, #1) by Alexandria Bellefleur
  • Excuse Me While I Disappear: Tales of Midlife Mayhem by Laurie Notaro
  • Schooled by Ted Fox
  • Time of My Life (Time After Time #1) by Mary Frame
  • For Butter or Worse by Erin La Rosa
  • Wildseed Witch (Wildseed Witch, #1) by Marti Dumas
  • Well Met (Well Met, #1) by Jen DeLuca
  • A Little Too Familiar (An Uncanny Romance, #1) by Lish McBride
  • Queen of the Tiles by Hanna Alkaf
  • The Love Con by Seressia Glass
  • The Love Hypothesis by Ali Hazelwood
  • Pumpkin (Dumplin’, #3) by Julie Murphy
  • Last Night at the Telegraph Club by Malinda Lo
  • Red, White & Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston
  • Gathering Blue (The Giver, #2) by Lois Lowry

My favorite Indie books that I read this year:

  1. Musical Games (Kinloch, #4) by Evie Alexander
  2. Ex Appeal (Ponto Beach Reunion, #3) by Cathy Yardley
  3. Strange Gods by Alison Kimble
  4. Kissing Games (Kinloch, #3) by Evie Alexander
  5. Delta (The Apex Cycle, #2) by M.T. Zimny
  6. Beta (The Apex Cycle, #1) by M.T. Zimny
  7. Always the New Girl by Kelly Vincent
  8. Boneyard by D.M. Darroch
  9. Gouda Friends (Ponto Beach Reunion, #2) by Cathy Yardley
  10. Hollywood Games (Kinloch, #2) by Evie Alexander
  11. Sting of the Scorpion (Outlawed Myth, #3) by Evelyn Puerto

Out of the 68 books that I read:

18 Indie Books
5 Nonfiction Books

Other reading stats:

I read 16 books for book clubs
I reviewed 20 books this year for a total of 423 reviews written lifetime

The books I read this year:

2021 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2020 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2019 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2018 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2017 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2016 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2015 Reading Challenge Blog Post

2022 Physical Activity – Dance, Health, and Fitness

Aerial Dancing Highlights for 2022
2. I took 111 aerial classes total
3. I spent $1,439.83 total (I have some credit as an ambassador that I used towards some classes)
4. I spent 141.4 hours in class
5. I worked with 46 different instructors

Lifetime money spent (just for aerial classes): $9,432.24
2014 – $90
2015 – $422.21
2016 – $1777
2017 – $2594
2018 – $1465.74
2019 – $566
2020 – $225
2021 – $852.46
2022 – $1,439.83

Lifetime total aerial classes: 619
2014 – 6
2015 – 19
2016 – 109
2017 – 139
2018 – 92
2019 – 37
2020 – 35
2021 – 63
2022 – 111

Total time spent dancing +: 933.9 hours (38.9 days)
2014 – 10.5 hours
2015 – 37.5 hours
2016 – 173.5 hours
2017 – 226 hours
2018 – 144.5 hours
2019 – 55.5 hours
2020 – 55.75 hours
2021 – 89.25 hours
2022 – 141.4 hours

Class Breakdown at different studios for 2022
Ascendance – 39/111= 35%
Revolt – 15/111 = 14%
Divine – 25/111 = 23%
Bat City Circus – 6/111 = 5%
Emerald City Trapeze – 5/111 = 5%
Raven – 4/111 = 4%
Selenite Studios – 4/111 = 4%
Pole Fitness Seattle & Bellevue – 3/111= 1%
Sky Candy – 3/111 = 3%
Lache – 2/111 = 2%
Mora Pole – 2/111 = 2%
Versatile Arts – 2/111 = 2%
Jungle Movement – 1/111 = 1%

Class Type Breakdown for 2022
Lyra – 49
Pole – 30
Silks/Sling – 8
Straps – 5
Floorwork – 5
Trapeze – 3
Conditioning – 2
Flexibility – 2
Other – including Boudoir Striptease, Bungee Basics, Intro Harness, and Trampoline – 7

In other fitness accomplishments:

  • I biked 267.5 (bringing the total miles biked on my e-bike to 917.5)
  • I worked on partner/duo Lyra with a new friend
  • I tried out many new studios in the Austin area
  • I was able to do 10 chin-ups in a row
  • I was able to get my one-arm pull-up and incorporated it into a dance performance
  • I took several privates and worked on my fish flop, handspring, and choreo for my performance
  • I volunteered with PSO in Seattle again as well as with Misfits in Motion as a pole pixy

My favorite fitness photos from the year!

 

2021 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown
2020 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown
2019 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown
2018 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown
2017 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown
2016 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown
2015 Physical Activity Blog Post Breakdown